Okay...put yourself in this person's shoes. You're a kindhearted person. You talk to a certain person somewhat frequently, and...
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everything is fine. Then one day, it hits you that this person is attracted to you. (They haven't done anything appropriate.) You start doing your best to avoid this person, but they're around a fair deal... Towards the end of the time that you will see them for a while, they e-mail you and apologize. You don't respond. They try to talk to one last time, but you avoid them. They e-mail you one final time, and apologize again, but this time they are rather rough on themselves, blaming themselves for everything, and speaking very poorly of themselves. You still don't respond... Why would you (this person) react this way? Would it have been so hard for you to respond to the first e-mail, saying you got their apology but that the two of you could not ever talk again? After the second e-mail, when you must see how much this person is hurting about the situation, why would you still refuse to respond? Does this person really mean so little to you that you are willing to have them suffer because you can't at least acknowledge their apology? (Sorry, this was so long, everyone who took time to read this. I'm really trying to wrap my head around the above situation...I'm the one who sent the e-mails...)
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Answer:
I would at least tell them,it's ok,don't worry about it.Some people can be so mean.
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Well chances are he doesn't want to lead you on any more! He doesn't know how to say what he is feeling without hurting your feelings and then when he gets an email that is talking all bad about yourself he doesn't want to get caught up in a mess that seems as though someone is trying to play him to get what they want by sympathy or fear that the person may do something to themselves "if" they don't get their way! I would have to say that despite the fact that he did not email you back or even let you know that he got the emails ~ chances are that was his way of letting you know point blank that he didn't want to talk to you. There is always the chance that he sent your email address into spam mail and never got any of the other ones after he got the first one~ possibly blocked you because he no longer wanted to interact with you. There are always a million what if's.
sazzycat09
So, I've gotten one response so far suggesting that my actions were inappropriate. I can't fault the person's judgement, since they don't know the whole story here, which I'm not telling here... Before anyone else responds, one could maybe argue that I shouldn't have e-mailed the person (or maybe not), but please take into account that while this person's actions towards me were not inappropriate, they were definitely such that they could have been misinterpreted...is it so horrible of me to ask then for some sort of acknowledgement of my apology?
Nancy is really struggling right now...
maybe cause you dont want to encourage them to write to you
lederman
You seem to be getting mad because you don't like our answers. I think most of us went back and read your other questions and see that you appear to be obsessed with this issue since you have been asking us about it for a month now. You emailed, you apologized, he didn't respond, and you need to back off and let it go. What difference does it make now who did what? It's over, leave the guy alone.
Wellduh
I imagine they do not respond as they do not wish to encourage any further contact. They don't want contact so stop trying.
Gingerminx
If I understand correctly there was nothing for you to apologize for or be rough on yourself for so the fact that you did would appear very strange to that person who likely had no idea you were attracted to them. So to me it makes you seem somewhat neurotic so not someone they would want to interact with.
Anonymous
They did answer by not responding. They are telling you to leave them alone. If they wrote you back then you would have continued writing them. I'm guessing this person you keep hounding is your teacher. Back off and drop it because your continual emails are totally inappropriate. They are right to ignore you.
virginiabay
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