CHILD SUPPORT: If someone you know is lying about their income to avoid paying the correct child support, can you turn them in??? see desc.

personally i think most of you are just being assholes and trying to rant and raid, if someone had 3,000$ of yours what would you do???? probably not let it slide. point is, he ended up giving it back and thats all i wanted, i really could care less about everything else i just needed a good blackmail excuse to make him weight his options and give me my damn item back. but thanks for being pricks:)

Sounds to me like you are as much a deceitful scum bag as he is... you deserve each other.

Child support percentages differ from state to state. Where I live, I must pay my daughter's mother 14% of my income for child support. I suppose that he's being paid under the table? Cash only? Well, no red flags have raised because he has no reported income. If he doesn't use a bank and has no paper trail, 1099, or W-9 stating his wages, then what you will report will be hearsay. His employer will disavow any knowledge of him working there. He will have nothing to show, when required to give a statement of income and there will be no bank account to audit. You will look like a fool, if you try to blow the whistle on him. HOWEVER, the court WILL listen to the mother. If the mother brings petition before the court that he may be making more money than he is reporting, they will investigate that claim from her. Long story short: tell the mother. She's the only one who the court is interested in hearing from about this matter.

My answer: If I decided to move to another U.S. state, I would spend 2 weeks proving a) who I am 2) If my S.S. card is real 3) If I really worked at those 9 jobs since 1984 4) If I had any other children, or no other children 5) If I have always lived in the United States 6) If I EVER lived in the United States 7)If I really owned thos eight credit/debit cards in the state I lived in 8) If I had one or more STD's or just got somebody in an office to lie about that 9) If ever went to church 10) And that real big question, which they shouldn't ASK and I don't need to TELL anyway. That's the big question, not whether I was another Ted Bundy or Timothy McVeigh(That's all free information for the press). I heard it takes less than 10 seconds to take your clothes off, and 10 minutes to think about if you are going to. But it takes a lot longer to get a Law degree so stop trying to think you are one. ,,,

Two things: Don't loan money to men. And make better choices in men than you obviously did with this one. And PS: If you are a MRS, why are you dating?

How much cash are we talking about that he owes you? $100? $200? Less than that? Is it really worth all this aggravation? If it's a small amount of money think of it like this...it's the price of never seeing this piece of sh-t ever again. Using the monetary amount that he pays as child support as blackmail to get him to pay you back only causes more drama than it's worth. If you can prove you loaned him money then take him to small claims court if it's under a certain amount. If I were you, I'd stay out of other people's affairs that you have no business with. If you are pissed that you loaned him money that he hasnt paid you back why interject yourself out of spite? I dont think anyone especially courts will take hearsay as the smoking gun which will cause them to automatically open the investigation. But if you really want to press forward (I dont recommend this) call his ex and tell her whats what. Let the ex be the one to take him back to court. Even if she does take him back to court, he still hasnt paid you back. Now what? If you ask me, you made some bad personal decisions. First with getting involved with this guy (which it sounds like you were dating him even though you knew about his situation and were ok with at the time...This calls into question your moral compass as a whole.), and by loaning him cash. NEVER loan anyone cash. That situation always ends badly.

Get some proof, then you can hand it over to him, or hand it over to anyone who might be interested if he doesn't want to play ball.

If I were you, I would only worry about the $ he owes you. Then after he pays you, let the mother of the child know.

tell his wife to take him to court...and offer to be a witness