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What are some reasons why your boyfriend would suddenly break up with you and not talk to you?

  • So I was in a Relationship not too long ago, it was official as of Saturday, 8 days ago, everything was going really well and we got along really well together, and all of our mutual friends said we just went together. Then one of my friends suddenly started hanging around my bf, and hugging him a lot and stuff. I didn't like the way she was acting around him, and he told me he didn't either. Then she decided to make up a huge bullshit story about me, telling me that something really bad had happened to me at a party I was at, and that he was with another girl at the time, I found out 2 days later that it was not true, after I had already been in the hospital and talking to the police. Then 2 days later (3 days ago) my bf suddenly breaks up with me through text without even saying anything about it to me. He will not talk to me at all, we have a lot of mutual friends because we were bestfriends before we started dating, and a lot of those friends are even telling him to talk to me and wondering what is going on. He refuses to talk to me, and I just don't know what to do. I don't even know if he is aware of the horrible story one of my friends made up and told me. I don't know if she has been telling him bullshit too or what. She more then likely has been telling him stuff too, I'm pretty sure she has, because she was jealous and tried to ruin our relationship, if so she was successful. Do you have any advice at all, I really like this guy, he won't talk to me, and a lot of our mutual friends are even talking to him trying to get him to talk to me. Also do you think that the girl who made up a terrible story about me ( my so called friend) was trying to ruin our relationship? and do you think she was telling him bullshit too? I just don't know what to do or think anymore, all I know is I really need to talk to him.

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    Move on!

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Sounds like your BF is going to believe whatever he's told. That sad. He's not asking you your half of the story becuase he already doesn't trust you. Thats foolish. Its gonna take time for him to see the light and whoever this other girl is, she needs a swift kick in the ass. The worst thing someone could do is start gossip. It's hurtful and decietful, and always is started becuase someone wants something else. Let things lie low for a while, then give him a call. Bring the subject up tactfully. Hope everything works out :-)

ShannonL

Maybe he thinks you talk too much

N'anderthal

It doesn't matter what she said to him. If he believed anything bad about you then he didn't really care that much for you no matter what he had said before. No one can steal someone from you unless they want to be "stolen". No one who cares about you will believe bad things about you unless they want to believe it. You need to move on to someone that cares enough about you to trust you.

Wellduh

I would have to agree with AnonymousGirl, just try to keep your distance from him for a bit and let him ponder the facts. Its still too soon to tell what is really going on so it might be best to hang around with your friends like normal and try not to get too involved right now. What can make this situation feel worse is the fact that your emotions are displayed to many people, so it make controlling how you feel harder. He might feel the same way as well. Give him about a week to himself about that, also tell your friends not to bring it up if possible. After that, shoot him an email or text just asking how he has been and how he's doing. Honestly the situation could have nothing to do with you at all, such as a home issue and he's trying to distance himself. Good luck and hope it works out.

Aiden

I am really sorry to hear all this. From what you said, there is no proof that she went to him and made up stories about you. All you have for evidence if there is any at all is circumstantial evidence and that's not enough. Don't try to talk to him. Don't be overly defensive to him, especially as you don't even know why he is acting like this in the first place. Yes, it's possible that she told him horrible stories about you... but if she did and the stories are lies, he may figure that out eventually. It's better that he find that out for himself... from somebody else. Yes, this girl sounds like she was trying to ruin your relationship. It sounds like she was jealous... and wanted him for herself. Really, though... If she managed to convince him you're an evil person and he doesn't want to talk to you over it, is he that great of a guy in the first place? Wouldn't that say that he doesn't trust you... but instead trusts somebody else who is not you? As for this "friend", it may be wise to distance yourself from her... If she continues being like this, people will see through her (hopefully) eventually without you having to say a thing.

AnonymousGirl

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