How can i prove to my boyfriend that he can trust me?

I tried cocaine after telling my long distance boyfriend i wouldn't and i lost his trust. how can prove that i can earn back his trust from so far away?

• Answer:

  hi, unusually enough, i have the same exact problem, except i would be the boyfriend. i recently had a talk with my significant other with her cocaine habit and asked her to stop. she continued to do it and lied to me. logically, from the boyfriend stand point i should have left her but have told her if she does it one more time i will leave her. now, i understand cocaine abuse, because i used to do it and it lead me to do things, that still to this day i cant believe ive done, like searching carpets for hours on end looking so specs the size of salt grains. of coarse it took a little over a year for me to get like that. i dropped the habit after realizing how much my friends started to look down on me and it took at least two years for me to completely break the habit. i do not like being the controlling boyfriend and the other day i decided, that i dont care if she does do cocaine (i havent told her this), ive decided that if this is something she likes to do, i cannot stop her(an addict will not listen to anyone else, rather will have to figure it out on their own). but if she continues the habit, obviously she is not someone i want to waste my time with and i will leave her, and i wont have a problem leaving her if this is my reason. IM NOT CALLING YOU AN ADDICT SO RELAX. but i cant say the same for your boyfriend. unfortunately, cocaine IS VERY addictive, and the worse part is doing it, and not knowing you are addicted. i didnt even know i was till i was in the process of quitting (i quit because i didnt want to lose respect from my friends and was tired of doing stupid things like running from cops, but never once did i think i had a problem till i realized, in the wuitting process, that i would have done anything for more) my advice: be more respectful to your boyfriend, and hopefully he can trust you again, im not saying be a slave, but be mindful that this is something that he finds very unattractive and probably looks down upon. time is the only thing real thing that heals wounds. and MOST IMPORTANTLY, try not to live on this, try to move on and talk to him like normal, if he cant get over this, and you have quit all together then this is his problem and im sorry but things might never be the same. GOOD LUCK :D