Why doesnt my boyfriend talk to me in person?
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I have a boyfriend and he is in grade 12 and i am in grade 10 we have been going out for 4 weeks. We have never talked in person, we only make eye contact and he told me that he is shy, but he had girlfriends before but they broke up with him because of that reason is that he wont talk to them, but im not going to break up with him because i love him so much. we only talk on msn/facebook and when someone is one the phone. (i am dating my friend's cousin btw) for example: she talks to him on the phone and she tells me what he says on the phone to tell me, but once she told him to talk to me on the phone but he said no that he is shy.... i can understand that too because i'm shy too but i want to talk to him so badly. should i talk to him first and make the first move or shouold i wait for him to do it PLEASE HELP!!!
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Answer:
Sorry but this isn't considered as a relationship!!! He's a waste of time!! How could yu love someone you have never talked to?! The best thing to do is end it!!!!! Plz do ASAP!!
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Other answers
okay. first question. were all of his girlfriends younger than him? cuz maybe thats why he wont talk to u at school cuz he embarrased of having a younger gf? (u answer that one cuz idk) and i admire how much u love him :] meet him in person outside of school somehow (like if his cousin is having him over at her house come over too and suprise him so he cant avoid not talking to u) does he have a stutter hes embarrased about? or hes probably telling the truth about how hes super shy.. but anyway talk to him when theres no one around or something. give him time :] maybe he needs to gain ur full trust and know u wont leave him like his other girlfriends did. cuz he talks to his cousin right? and hes known her all his life. but dont blow up at him demanding he talks to u. this will scare him away lol :] this is a test of ur love!!!!!!! good luck :]
frightening
this is not a bf/gf relationship ... if communication is not there, there is no way for any kind of friendship, much less romance ... and if you don't talk to him, how can you know that you love him so much??? it sounds like he isn't mature enough to handle a gf, so it is time to cut it off
Temporary Name
If he ever wants to hold down a relationship then he needs to sort this out, what happends on a date, you going to stand back to back texting each other. No, he need to buck up his ideas and grow up, this is not just a case of faint heart/fair maiden, it's a case of no balls. If he's too nervous and shy then a string of relationships is going to condition him to be soft and unhealthily shy even further. Not good for him, not good for you. Give him the chance to see he needs to change to have what he wants and hope that he takes it, otherwise move on.
Hemmersfield
Doesn't sound much like your going out or even dating , the only thing I can really say is move on and i'll bet he starts talking to you in person
Patti jo
Doesn't sound much like your going out or even dating , the only thing I can really say is move on and i'll bet he starts talking to you in person
Patti jo
Doesn't sound much like your going out or even dating , the only thing I can really say is move on and i'll bet he starts talking to you in person
Patti jo
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