What does a cold sore feel like and what's the best treatment?

Is the silent treatment in a relationship emotional abuse? It hurts bad when my girl does this.

• When me and my girl disagree she will start giving me the cold shoulder. She wont call me. she will wait for me to call her first. She will come home and sit in any room "I'm not in". She will have an attitude and answer me with only a yes or a no. I ask her whats wrong and instead of talking it out she will say that nothing is wrong. I tell her how she is acting. She says she tired. I know she is mad at me from her actions. I feel very hurt inside because I love her and I see how quick she turnes on me if I don't agree with her. I feel crazy inside because I feel like she is trying to punish me. Is this emotional abuse? Im a guy and I don't want to sound like a wimp but I really feel like this is abuse. I can't disagree with her. If I do, "I will pay". She will give me the silent treatment.

• Answer:

  It sounds like you 2, when in a discussion, have different viewpoints. So get into upsets. And the way she handles the 'PROBLEM' is to go silent, go to another room. For most people with different viewpoints this happens, they get into upsets. The main thing that could be out is you don't discuss with reality. In order for any 2 or more people to agree there must be reality on the subject at hand. What is real to you and what is real to her. One could say, you are both at fault. Because you both caused a temporary separation in the relationship. That is what an upset does, it separates. My advise is try not to disagree, but find out what is real from her that could match your reality. And match up your reality with hers. By agreeing the 2 of you will come together and your relationship will be stronger. There are many areas in a relationship that take agreements, such as: the other persons friends, the other persons parents, future family together and how many children, where to live, how to manage money, etc. These are things that have to take thought, together, in order to build a lasting relationship. One thing about disagreements is this, it shows that a person or persons don't know how to handle a problem. In this world knowing how to handle problems is CAUSE, not knowing how to handle problems is being an AFFECT. Learn how to bring agreements into each of your discussions. It will change your life. It will also help you in other areas of life.