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Am I weird or crazy if I do NOT EVER want to have sex in my life? I just feel it's a big risk & NOT worth it

  • I mean, no matter how ppl say they love you, there's ALWAYS a chance for infidelity and condoms are NOT full proof against STDs/pregnancy. PPl DO CHEAT, even in marriage and thus, STDs and unwanted pregnancies result. Speaking of pregnancy, you then worry about morning after pills, abortions, and such stuff. Moreover, you have to take birth control pills, or other contraceptives, which are steroids in essence, and thus, harmful to your body as a female. Women have increased risk for some cancers via the use of contraceptives. Then, you have to worry about cervical cancers and such stuff b/c of sexual activity. yes, cervical cancer happens to even non sexually active ppl, but not nearly as much as it does to ppl who have intercourse/sexual activity. lastly, usually, sex drive decreases with increased age anyway, esp if you have heart problems, so you're not missing much for the long run. Moreover, Thus, I think that for me, sex is NOT worth it. Are these good reason to NOT want to have sex EVER in life? I think sex is overrated. I personally can NEVER TRUST a man to NOT CHEAT on me. I'd literally be playing Russian Roulette each time I had sex. I don[t want an STD or HIV or something else that will ruin my life. As for having a husband and kids, well, they often aren't as loyal as you think they are. Your career and/or pets can give you much more love and devotion than ANY SPOUSE/child can. Thus, why risk my life by having sex and endangering my body? NO LOVE is worth it for me. So, am I or others who feel this way really deserving of being ridiculed/made fun of?

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    That's deeply personal and I don't think you are weird or crazy whichever way you decide to live your life.

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It just means that given the risks and the baggage, you do not feel desirous or ready for sex. If you have occasion to change your mind, you will know. Nothing more, nothing less.

More2Be

If you don't want to have sex, then don't have sex. You're not the only one who is afraid of sex. Don't beat yourself up about it. I personally do not view you as weird or crazy based on this question because I understand your fears. As for people who ridicule/make fun of you, they probably just lack compassion in this area and don't understand how one can live like that. That's their problem. Don't let it become yours.

AnonymousGirl

NO! you do not deserve to be ridiculed....BUT you should just keep it to yourself as it could bring people who are in happy relationships down. Then people will start to avoid you and you will be a miserable person. Some people should not breed. Do not take this as a shot at your character or sanity or anything else when I say you may fall into this catagory. Judging from your dialogue you are most probably neurotic, hypochondriac and a possible person that suffers from OCD, you need to be in total control of all things at all times. It would also not suprise me if you were progressively removing yourself further and further from society and had a fear of germs. If any of this is remotely true then you should seek therapy from an honest professional that can help you manage life so that you can get the satisfaction and happyness you deserve. You may need medication. These people will insist that there is no reason you can not have children but I strongly disagree. Unless you can attribute all of this kaos directly to emotional trauma then it is probably in your genes. So why pass that on to another generation. While someone will probably say that my comments are horrible I was only this frank because of statements that you made that allowed that door to open. No love is worth it to you and a laundry list of why sex is bad. Combind with paranoia about the loyalty of husbands and children.

carman727

I think it's perfect for you.

evandad

yes you are crazy. but whatever, you aren't hurting anyone if you choose to be celibate, even if it is because of a blown out of proportion histrionic fear of stds. but from what you're talking about i think you do deserve to be ridiculed, because your fear is ridiculous and over the top. it's like people who honestly think they're going to die from cancer if a friend of a cousin of their neighbor's dog walker smokes. that's just my opinion though.

Anonymous

Having looked at some of your stuff I do think you're a bit weird. Sorry but you did ask and that's my honest answer. Seems to me you over think things. With all sincerity I'd suggest counselling or seeing a professional. On the plus side, you may be the perfect mate for Woody Allen!

Unicorn Man

YES

N'anderthal

Relax and just live, life is not that complicated. Life is quite simple, you are just putting too much thought into it. Shit happens, and it always will. Just be smart about who you have sex with, and you will be alright. I refuse to have sex with someone I couldn't see myself being with. If they get pregnant, well, I guess I am ready. With sex comes great responsibilities. You should be ready for them if the time comes.

Kayweezy

Yes your crazy. Never having a physical / sexual / loving relationship with someone your whole life would not be a life worth living IMO.

Rufus

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