What are some topics you can talk about on the phone?

What are some topics a guy can talk to a girl you like about on the phone?

• Answer:

  If you're in high school or college then talk about the courses you are taking or the teachers you like or don't like. Talk about your favorite singers, bands, American Idol, world events. Once you get started it's easy. After a few weeks you can generally tell if you enjoy each others company. Always treat girls like a lady (be polite) and if they don't respect you then move on and meet someone best suited for you. You should ask her topics that she likes to talk about. don't get nervous and talk too much..remember..everyone likes someone at some point Ask her opinion on things as a high schooler and I like it when guys ask my opinion on things such as life, politics & music or just tell a really good joke funny guys always lighten up a conversation. You should not talk to her on the phone, She will become accustom to you, but talk on a one to one with her. Do not take her calls and do not return her calls until after the weekend, Then meet her only on week days. Make her earn the right to be the weekend girl! Girls like a challenge, and BAD boys. They will not tell you this, but it is true. What does that tell you; it tells you to be too busy for their phone calls, and way too busy on the weekend for them! And besides you miss the hole point of talking to a girl if you can not look at her chest. I have talked to girls many times and still do not know or care what color their eyes are. She probably wants a change so be a gentleman, open doors, pull out chairs, even if she just passes those acts off you still have to do it cos that's our job as men. And especially be a gentleman on the phone, just ask her what she likes to talk about and it goes off from there. Another answer From personal experience, no matter how much a girl will try and tell you she wants a nice guy and all that good stuff, its not true. Girls enjoy the chase, they think more with emotions and less logically. To win at the game you have to excite her emotions and one way of doing so is not being available on the weekends. She has to earn that. Never talk to her for too long and always get off when your in the middle of a good conversation. She'll want to hear more later and it gives you a seed. Don't bring up her past and don't let her bring yours up, but if she try's and you feel comfortable doing so... keep it light and basically don't tell her enough for her to get any idea... good or bad. Good topics are future goals, family, passions, and such things. One more tip... don't stop her from speaking if you found something to speak about, wait until shes done and try to continue that conversation and save the other idea for a later time when things get dull. So this means you'll have to pay attention to what shes saying. The person below me is right but that's more like the first couple of times. Another answer Quite worrying about what to say. Call her while your eating an apple and act nonchalant. Use every opportunity to tease her. Also don't worry about setting up a date, just end the conversation first, with a quick, "bye, got to go." She will be so confused that she will call you back later, where you will have the upper hand. If not, forget her.