Why are people more worried about making money instead of doing what they love?
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During my senior year when I asked other people what they wanted to do with the rest of their lives or what their goals were most of their answers were to be successful and become wealthy yet no one said they wanted to go to college to do something they loved...which confuses me...why spend your life doing something you hate just for money when you can do something you love and still get paid even if it is a little less money... Is my fear of "settling down" into the American dream the reason I think this way? Or just the fact that I care less of money and believe knowledge is wealth?
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Answer:
Doing what you love is important, but make sure it's helpful to other people too in some way, otherwise your life could be very hard. For some people, there is a love of making money and feeling as though you've succeeded. In many respects this is the American dream. They might also feel their happiness doesn't depend solely on their career; they can pursue happiness and meaning with their family, in their travels, participating in church, playing sports on the weekends, volunteering, etc. For these people, if they find that they are good at something that is highly marketable but not what they'd be doing as a hobby, it is enough. Often times getting good and being successful at something makes you enjoy it even if you were more ambivalent going into it. Other people find something they love to do, and they make it their job. Maybe people that love sports become professional players, or coaches, or trainers. Someone who loves to play music can join a band, freelance, or teach. Someone who loves to cook can become a chef. The list goes on. The truth is, even in many of these jobs there is a lot of hard work that is not directly related to the field you love. An architect may love drawing and designing, but end up spending all their time drawing their boss' designs, or when they become the boss, end up spending most of their time dealing with clients and managing employees instead of drawing. When I think about what would be a good career for a person who is unsure I consider three things: Do you love the subject? Does it pay well? Are you good at it? If you can hit all three, then you're golden. If you hit two of the three, odds are you'll still live happy and fulfilled. I went into chemical engineering because I thought I could help people doing it and because I was relatively good at chemistry and math. Into my second year in college when I was staying up til 3:00 AM every night to get through the homework I began to question if this is really what I wanted. I didn't sign up to solve partial differential equations, I signed up to help people! But as time went on I overcame the difficulty of those endless nights and even learned to enjoy putting my mind to work solving problems mathematically. I also increased the amount of tutoring and volunteering that I did on my own time. If I really wanted to I could volunteer or tutor full-time, but I believe I would miss the intellectual rigor of chemical engineering. So I do both. Also, doing something sciencey has really paid off in terms of people paying for me to travel abroad to do research over the summers, an opportunity I'm not sure I would have had if I had stuck with sociology.
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Because if you're broke, you can't eat - which typically leads to starvation.
Darius Liddell
Because people live 98% of the time trying to avoid mistakes and 2% of the time trying to avoid missed opportunities. [1] When we're in mistake-avoidance mode, we tend to fall back on our default and socially-programmed behaviors that have conventionally proven to work well for survival. One of those behaviors is to seek money head-on, instead of indirectly. Most people who have experienced the privilege of reaching means above their minimum needs will tell you that money becomes completely meaningless after that. Once you have food, shelter, health, no debt, a projected savings runway of more than a year of expenses, and the confidence to find a job whenever you decide to, the impact of money on your life becomes completely hypothetical. Having a million more dollars will simply give you choices; and these are choices that you will very likely not enjoy, unless you had the guts to make independent choices from the beginning, including not chasing money. So ironically, money in excess only becomes enjoyable to people who have learned early on not to seek money directly. What the majority of us take a long time to understand is that the activities we postpone in search of marginally more money are likely the very activities that lead to value-creation and wealth. And money is a side-effect of creating wealth (doing what you enjoy and other people want). Historically, college has been the stepping stone to climb to middle-class from the bottom. And investment, of time or money, has been the stepping stone out of middle-class and into the privileged wealthy class. College falls directly under the 98% social convention rule: it's what everyone does, and it rarely seems like a mistake. Investment falls directly under the 2% rule: it's risky, and it prioritizes opportunities over fear of making mistakes. So between the two choices of "going to college to make money" and "investing your time in education so that you can build wealth", most people will frame their journey as the former, even though the latter is much more likely to lead to unexpected excess wealth. Doing what you love, when it creates value for others, is called "wealth". Civilization invented money to tangibly represent wealth. And now money is the steady and predictable reward that civilization gives someone to do what he doesn't love, so that it maintains the flow of wealth already uncovered by someone else.[2] To read about a day in the life of those who knowingly walk away from money to pursue value-creation, see the following essay (Disclosure: I'm the author). http://www.aminariana.com/essays/money-worries [1] These statistics are according to studies about human neurological pathways. The dopamine-based motivation pathway fears losing out on opportunities. The dominant serotonin-based motivation pathway fears making mistakes. Most of us, except when doing creative things or during physical exercise, default to the serotonin-based motivational pathway. We also become more dominantly dependent on it as we get older -- which is why most old people are conservatives. Risk-seeking people tend to have more of a dominant dopamine pathway. The lead researcher on this subject is Professor Baba Shiv of Stanford University. [2] Those who start a business usually eat last, but when they do, the ceiling is decided by the market, not by a boss.
Amin Ariana
Because there are three ideas that permeate American society, which are blindly followed as traditions, which lead to the rat race chasing money. First, that the purpose of business is to maximize profits (for shareholders). It's not. The true purpose of business is to bring customers something of value. Second, that whoever has the most stuff wins. Mainstream materialism isn't making people happy. It is employing Chinese manufacturers, and Walmart, and enriching the owners of the billion square feet of storage units built in the last decade. Third, that like Andrew Carnegie, we're supposed to get as rich as possible, then start doing good by being philanthropists. As an alternative to these three, I propose that we build and work for businesses that have some meaning and purpose, that provide services which make lives better, which allow more of us to do good and feel good while earning a reasonable income. That is what I now do, having left the rat race three years ago, and what I help others do at http://fledge.co, the conscious company accelerator.
Michael 'Luni' Libes
At a personal level: Because, without money, they won't have the resources to do what they love. At an interpersonal level: Because society enforces the notion that life is about becoming rich and famous. Eventually, people lose track of the goals they wanted to accomplish with their money, and becoming rich and successful becomes an end to itself.
Martin-Ãric Racine
1. Because you doing what you love is not necessarily what I need, and vice versa. We can't all play chess and violins. Somebody has to make furniture and fuel and concrete. 2. Many people do not have something they particularly love to do. Instead, they like having material goods. I've had intelligent colleagues at work who said flat: "I don't care what is it that I'm doing, only that they pay me well". Unlike you seem to assume, they did not hate what they were doing: they just did not care. It did not bother them. They are responsible, intelligent, educated. In some ways, that attitude served their careers better than my mental structure (which is being passionate about technology).
Marcin Krol
Because it's harder to profit off of people who value the pursuit of greater knowledge over materialism.
Alton Sun
humans desire recognition and the easiest way to get it if u do not have some inherent crazy talent for something that would help us get it is money . there are people who make money doing something they love , but most of us are just normal people striving to earn our bread and butter doing things we might get good of habit rather than of aptitude .so we end up working our asses off for things that dont matter to us , for people we ve never even met # if i love to sing and i cant sing like adele , i would want to spend a cold night in a hut rather than singing on the streets.
Jayati Baweja
It takess guts and courage to do what you want and u love to do because it wnt come easy!! And to become rich n wealthy with less efforts is very simple ordinary and better called as a JOB. But to folllow your heart thing u love to do is called being an Entrepreneur.. Thats what the difference come... Its like to set your own KINGDOM own rules.. And that courage is very rare. U never know you may not earn much money but your mental peace n to stand different from other commons gives immense happinesss n pleasure.. U have nothing to regret in life. And thats why we got these amazing personalities in life like Dhirrubbhai Ambani, Vitthal Kamat Mr Bansal.. And the line still remains: go n achieve excellence, success have to follow u!!!
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