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What are some things to say when you think a guy is hot?

This guy stares at me. When I look back he looks away. He finds everything I say funny, and offers to carry my bags. He makes conversation about odd things, just to talk. When I asked if he's gay, he replied "No, I have a girlfriend, do you think I'm sexy though?" I'm confused because it's been goin

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    If he's truthful about his girlfriend claim, he finds you very attractive but he's also at least somewhat attached to his current relationship. He probably wouldn't leave that relationship unless someone he finds more attractive makes it plain that they're interested in him (risk and loss aversion is a thing he thinks at least subconsciously about). If he's lying about the girlfriend then he's trying to save face and probably coming from the thought vector that we humans tend to want more ferociously the very things we seem unable to get. You might see if you can verify the existence of this girlfriend (without being too creepy) and when you either confirm or debunk, decide what to do next. He's already pursuing you to a degree but he's just waiting for you to bounce the ball back. This is of course a lot less risky if he doesn't really have a girlfriend - but you may understandably have an issue with the lie. Best of luck to you in figuring this out. :)

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I wouldnt assume some people just act different. Now if he makes a move on you thats different. If your uncomfortable you should really not hang out. Set limits to when you talk like only in class. And hold your own books. Start hanging around with a crowd of women and doing hobbies that you enjoy that he doesnt. But if he is stressing you out hardcore just cut him loose completely.

Kenneth Harper

This guy is 80-90%like you and personally I think what he says " no I've got a girlfriend" is just a lie.He doesn't want to lose face because he is not so sure whether if you have feelings for him or not

Nan Tsai

he likes you but he dont wanna be blammed for cheating. Or he has low selfasteam cus he gf could be callin him ugly. SO he could be wanting reaccurance in himself

Haley Damron

Well, clearly, he's got a crush on you , which is flattering, but doesn't mean you have to do anything about it. His response to your question about whether he's gay was decidedly immature , and ,if he's got a girlfriend, then he shouldn't be cheating on her. Enjoy the attention, but don't take it too seriously .

Teresa Crum

Sorry, honey, but he's looking for a hook-up and plans to keep the girlfriend.

Lisa Galarneau

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