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How do you tell someone you are not in love with them?

How do you tell if someone is really in love with you, or if they're just being child-like and really don't know what love is?

  • I'm 13, (if you know me you know I'm much more mature than any other teenager) and I'm dating this boy. We've been dating for 6 months now, and I do know what love is. I am truly in love with him. He says that he loves me, but I don't know if he really does in the same way I do, or just in that childish way that little kids say they do. How can I tell? Thanks.

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    Infatuation and Love are not the same. Thirteen years of age is quite young to know the difference or be in a relationship. Enjoy your passion for Life and leave such matters alone for now. Safe Journey

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Most boys at this age don't understand true love, & are less mature than girls of the same age. Love is understanding & acceptance of the others flaws & quirks. As long as they aren't sinful or harmful. Allowing them to be themselves. Love is faithfulness & respect, being true to the one you promise to be loyal to. Love is listening with sincerity, to the other one, even if you disagree. Love is sharing in the responsibilities of life, & equally sharing the decision making. Love is assisting the other to become a better person, in caring ways. Love is two individuals that can co-exist as one, working in harmony. And if this love comes to you through God, you are truly Blessed. At 13 you have plenty of time to figure out what you want in a husband. By paying attention to your likes & dislikes, in others. And search out these qualities in your choices. And patiently wait for the right one to make that life long commitment to. I hope that this helps you. God Bless you.

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(if you know me you know I'm much more mature than any other teenager) One, EVERYONE thinks their more mature than any other teenager. Two, you barely know anything that includes love, it's not real love. Three, the real reason for dating is to see if your ready for marriage. I don't think you want to get married.

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Ask him, it may be awkward, but that may be the only way to find out

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