What do I need to do to get my gf's parents to like me again and to bring her back in the house after my mom called my gf names?

church and lieing.... good combo..

oo quit a sticky situation. my suggestion is give it time and have a family meeting with both parties. depending on how serious the relationship is..

sounds like there is more to your story. but just go talk to them

The story was a bit confusing because it seemed like you wrote about the past in the present tense. But I got the impression you and your parents have been disrespectful to your girlfriend; you because you ignored her, hid her,left her at church without as ride, and didn't defend her when your parents disrespected her with their name calling. Is this what Jesus would have done?

Things went south after you left her stranded? Really? Things went south when you went behind your parents back to bring her. I don't know what is going on with you, your girlfriend, and your parents but her parents are right. I wouldn't let you near my daughter either. You should have told your parents you brought her and then you should have taken her home, then gone home. And your last sentence makes no sense at all. Your girlfriend's parents kick her out because of this? That makes no sense whatsoever. There has to be more than what you are telling. If her parents did kick her out without a place to go, someone needs to call child services on them. If they had her move in with a relative to get away from you and your family, good for them! You need to grow up some before you bother getting involved in a relationship with anyone.

What a smozzle this is .. isn't it? ... And do you KNOW where it all stemmed? It all stemmed from your immaturity and not knowing how to handle a situation you put yourself and your gf in. Lying about her being YOUR guest .. then to add insult to injury you cowardly abandoned her there to save your own skin. THIS .. stemmed from YOU doing something you weren't supposed to .. and THEN make it worse by doing more of something you weren't supposed to. Your parents need an apology for your acting badly and lying to them .. Her parents need an apology for you putting them and their daughter into such a predicament .. He your soon to be EX gf needs an apology for putting her in this predicament. You have a lot of apologizing to do .. ya better get busy!

Well first off all you should have stood up for her if you love the girl. depending on your age I got married at 16 and my husband mother has beat on me abused me and treated me like a dog. what finally made it so was my husband to stand up to his parents. and tell them this is my girlfriend she is not going any were and if you can't except that then you can not except meand if you try to push us apart your just going to make us closer together because at the end of the day she had no one and it seems like you don't if you really want to keep the girl tell the truth that you want to be with her and you can tell them I will do it and tell you or it will get done behind your back in sure they will want you to let them no when the 2 if you are going some where how it helps

That's why it pays to be honest. Be a man and take responsibility for your actions. The first thing you must do is apologize to everyone involved. Plus I think your mom should apologize for the name calling. I hope everything turns out for the better.

My boyfriends mom hates me. Always have yet she has no reason to. She's really snobby and overly judgmental. I wouldn't worry about it. Your mom doesn't like her, that's her loss. If anything, talk to her about it and tell her that she is your girlfriend and your mom needs to smarten up because you love her. That's all that should matter.