I kicked someone in school for being rude and saying really hurtful things to me. Whats the consequence?

you brought yourself down to their level. they provoked you and you responded. you'll be the one in trouble because they just used words and you were physical.

He bullied you, best reason to kick him I'd say. No one should have to put up with bullies. If everyone were to beat the living crap out of a bully despite the consequences everyone would rein supreme against bullying and maybe get the schools attention. People made fun of my dead father think I just sat there and took it? Physical violence is no different then mental violence. A bruise, yeah it'll go away in a couple weeks. Words? Can stick for a long, long time. Schools wanna stop suicide and mental abuse they shouldn't force kids to tolerate bullying. A bully who attacks everyone mentally is no different then a kid walking into a school with a loaded gun in their back pocket. Schools need to understand this.

Kicking him lightly enough on the leg that he laughed was better than punching his face in. I'm a teacher. I think you were justified. Now shift your thinking around for Monday morning. This event will bring the bullying to the attention of the principal. This is good. Try to remember who has heard the bully's harassment of you. Be ready with those names. You must say you wish you hadn't touched him because trying to solve a problem with violence is wrong. Your principal needs to hear you say this. If your teachers ignore the bullying, say so. Have an idea how often and when the bullying happens. You must also say that you do not feel safe at school (see how this is shifting around now?). It is the school's responsibility to deal effectively with bullying and to provide a safe learning environment. At the end, ask the principal how the bullying can be stopped. Please let me know how things went after your meeting. I think you will do fine. You should tell your parents. They will understand your perspective, as I do.

Physical violence is not the answer, especially on school grounds where it is judged more severely. Next time he says something mean, just walk away as if he's nothing. Or, if you feel you need to reply, say something like "I don't care what you think. I'm not sure you CAN think." Then walk away. Retaliating physically will always make trouble for you more than him. If he is bullying, report that at once.

not that I blame you, but that's called assault. people go to jail for that. never touch anyone out of anger. it could hurt you worse

Meh, depends upon how strict your private school is. If anything, you can walk away with just a warning. But I doubt they'd expel a student funding their school just because they were fooling around with another student. Also, if you're really that worried, I think you should take into account that hurting anyone, physically or emotionally is wrong. He hurt you emotionally, and you responded by hurting him physically. Both of you are in the wrong.

Probably nothing. Make it clear that you were being bullied. It depends on perhaps what grade you are in and the schools rules. I cant tell you for sure, but in my school district all that would happen is, at most, a note to your parents.

have you ever spoken to the school about this bully before. if so then they can be held to fault if you were scared for your safety. otherwise probably suspension.

Always think twice before instinctively reacting, unless in a Life threatening situation, The tables can turn as quickly, as your "friends" excuse themselves. Safe Journey