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How do I deal with an alcoholic that tries to control me and wants to always know my business, I'm not with the guy and never have been.

  • This guy gave me and my son a place to live cause we have nowhere else to go, guy has been my friend for about 6 years now. He's an angry abusive alcoholic, he tries to control everything. He wants to know all my business, he gets mad when I leave with my friends,he bitches about everything. When he's drunk he yells at me,puts me down, throws things up in my face,and he has drawn his fist up at me. Tells me if I leave somewhere again he'll throw my stuff out,and if I'm gone during the day he thinks he has the right to know where I've been and what I was doing. I need advice on what to do! I have nowhere else to go....

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    "I have no place to go" ? On the contrary. there are helpful organizations in every community or city. The church down the block could be a start, family, relatives. you need to to things suggested things for your child's well being and yourself. Forget the guy and find the assistance you need now. There are professional people 'out there' that are waiting for you to know on there door(s). With all due respect of the two who commented there suggestions are incomplete! Sincerely and encouragingly yours, Mister Bruce (concerned educator)

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It's kind of obvious, you need to move into a different place.

PhineousJWhoopie

No one can take advantage of u unless you allow then to. I think you know what needs to be done to get away from a unhealthy situation you are in, NOW GO DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE to remove yourself from him,and do it now before you get hurt!

hkyguy911

Leave him. 99.9 per cent of the time it only gets worse. You can't change a person just get a better version of them.

Halbee51

he obviously thinks you two are something that you dont

crowtrobot

He thinks you are his GF, his possession. Regardless, he is not stable, you could be In danger along with this abuse. No friends, no family,no job? You need to look for employment Along with searching out social services, shelters, churches, city mission,schools, organizations for the homeless and needy. Get away, good luck!

Bubblious

take your stuff and Leave him. He's not worth anything and will only cause pain

Barakiel667

Take yo stuff and leave him.

WeekdayWarriors

Did you already know he was an alcohlic before you went there? you've known him for 6 yrs ....if so, why go....

riadot

You have no business staying with your child and taking abuse. How do you find time to go out at night and not find a place of your own? Maybe the guy is teaching you a lesson which is wrong, but it seems you enjoy it why can't you move in with the people you wind up at night time? You need to grow up fast and take responsibilty for your actions instead of being a free loader with child. As you say never been with this guy then why live there you ?

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