How do I save my relationship with him? Is it worth it? What do I do/say so I don't lose him?
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So I really like this guy and he likes me, and we always hangout and are practically dating, just without the title/label. everything was perfect until some people scared me and told me these things that you have to do in a relationship (sexual things) that I was not comfortable doing, so I had a conversation with the guy I like and said that I wasn't ready for a relationship and wasn't comfortable with doing things if he wanted to do those types of things. He was pretty chill with it all and said that we could do whatever I'm comfortable with, but now one of the people that warned me talked to him and started convincing him that we should just be friends. I feel really stupid for believing the things that other people told me and talking to the guy I like about it, because now I might lose him. what should I do if he says that he wants to be friends? I want to be more than friends and can adapt to being in a relationship with some boundaries. Please help ASAP!!!!
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Answer:
Why does everything have to be "official" and have a name and meet the approval of other people you hang out with? Why do you listen to them at all? These people are not even friends. You like to spend time with this fellow. That's it. You don't need to name the relationship at this time. It is nobody else's business. You don't have to do anything. Try to remember that everything you know about social arrangements you learned from other children. Most of it is just silly, and the part that is not silly only applies to children.
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Tell him what you just said to us. That you want to be in a relationship with him with boundaries. Don't over think the situation. We tend to do that.
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