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Why do mean and deceitful people seem to always get ahead?

Why can't I seem to get a girlfriend?

  • Heck, I don't know what else to do so I'll try this. Okay, he it goes... I'm a 17 year old guy and I can't seem to, well, get a decent girlfriend. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. (The first thing you're probably thinking is "because you're ugly". Well, no. I'm not.) If you ask me, I think I'm a pretty attractive guy. I'm decent as well. I personally think I'm a lot more mature than sone of the other guys at my school. In fact, there pathetic. I feel as though, I would be a real good boyfriend to a girl because I would never cheat on her. I'm loyal. I would lose so much respect for myself if I were to do something like that. I don't seem to understand why girls want morons to be there boyfriend. I mean, I look at them, and I see a drug attic who would sell her out for a few ounces or cheat on her with another girl. Plus, they fail all there classes. Not only would I consider myself more, loyal and smart, I'm also strong and talented. heck, I'm a parkour expert. (I'm not trying to brag, I'm just real frustrated.) I'm the best runner in my P.E. class. To top it all off, not only am I a parkour expert, but I also free-run. (performing front-flips, side-flips, back-flips etc.) Every once in a while, I get a request to perform a front-flip. I mean yeah, I get a small audience and even an applause. People seem to be impressed with my skill, but I can't seem to use it to my advantage to get a girlfriend. Heck, I'm so well mannered that I don't even curse. (Yeah, I know. Hard to believe but it's true.) I'm so lost. I would think that girls would see me as a perfect boyfriend. Though, I would think that I have a... flaw. Look I... I-I get a little nervous when I... talk to girls. I mean I get really shy. I try not to show it, and act like a good friend, but I always feel as though I'm going to say something stupid. There's a, girl in my P.E. class, and I really like her. She's so cute and adorable I just-. Yeah, I think I've said enough about that but, she sees that I can do all these flips, handstands, best runner and such, and I feel like I would have a really, good chance with her. I'm just lost right now. What do I do? How do I get her to like me? I'm really, lost, and confused. The only thing missing in my life, is a decent girlfriend. Normally, I wouldn't use this website, but I'm hoping I can get some answers. Please, I need the advice. I would love to read some responses from other girls, because well, you ladies seem to know everything about this stuff. I'll comment on anything for everyone and I appreciate the time you put in to read all this. Thank you. I'll be waiting for your responses.

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    "Ugly" doesn't exist.I'm sure you are A handsome man.But If you think "A decent girlfriend is what you missing" you're totally wrong.You need to handle your life first, Find yourself know yourself, Make your purposes, Start moving in your life's road,In that road somewhere in a right moment you'll meet your the one out of nowhere,Stop searching for A girl, "I don't know what else to do" Please take few minutes to think about it.Should you really do something to be with someone? A girl is not A dress to get it or catch it.You can't make anyone to like you, Someone who suppose to like you will be liking you without you doing anything.Check out your tone & your life & all those words above. Your deserve is more than this, Your deserve is more than just sit desperate & looking for how to beg a girl to with you.You need to stand on your feet now & build your life through independent. Flaw? Flaws are what make us prefect,Our flaws makes us amazing. You need to also get prepared for relationship by time. You need to learn how treat A lady, & The responsibility & the duty you have as a man.So don't take it so easy.Live your life & the partnership of your life will happen automatically.

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Girls don't base their attraction on things like ooh, he can do parkour, or ooh he's sooo fast! Women base their level of attraction on emotions, how they feel when their around you, make her enjoy her time when she's around you, and if you expect to get any girl you're going to have to get over your nervousness. The best way to do that? Talk to more girls, not necessarily girls that you find attractive just girls in general (family doesn't count though) in time you should find yourself being more confident (and girls like confidence). Best of luck!!

itsmecody

You don't need to try to find a girlfriend. Be yourself, study, prep for college, hang out with friends, volunteer, spend time with family. Your true girlfriend will find you when your happy & become the man you are suppose to be. Boys don't need to be bothered with the drama. Other things are more important.

yeahsurelinda

1.Some girls go for the jerk rather than the kind guy.Just something some girls do. 2.You should talk to that girl in class.Girls don't really go for the shy guy's because they never really talk.Don't be afraid just talk. 3.I'm sure the right person will come to you.

Aliciah_QA

As much as you believe the guys in your school are immature the girls in high school are immature too. It's really sad but smart, nice guys don't become successful and in strong relationships until later. Also girls only take the love they think they deserve. It's really sad but it's true. With what I read you sound like a really cool guy! But all the talents you have doesn't matter to girls' hearts until after you've "won" them. Personally I focus more on the personality of guys than the talents, looks, and mannerisms of them. Here are a few examples: A guy I liked, I'll call T, I started to like in middle school because of his devotion to our religion. We were already friends and would talk all the time so that foundation was already settled. I liked him for several years and he liked me back but after so long I wanted more. He didn't want a girlfriend during high school and I was okay with that but at the same time he became so shy I would try to talk to him and he'd give me short answers. After a while I became frustrated and I stopped liking him.

Kiwigal

Go for it! Once youll get to know each other, you will get less stressed

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