My kid is spamming my Facebook friends with Dragon City invites. Help!

I know the big picture solution is for my 9 year old to stop sending invites...but I'd love to know if there's a software or settings solution, rather than relying on user behavior You're his parent. This is one of those small learning moments. You really should opt for telling him directly, parent to son, to not send out invites, rather than trying to find a secret nanny option.

When in place Facebook games I set all advert past to the privacy settings of only me. But it's been a long time and you may not be able to do that anymore.

if you think it's something your kid is doing intentionally to get game points, then yeah maybe talk to him about it with the potential for angry mom/punishment mom. but it sounds more like something accidental. i'd go with setting him up a fake name account. Maybe let him pick a funny fake name, but you get control of the password, and when he's 11 (or something) he gets full access?

Back when I was playing Facebook games, yeah, I had a separate account under a fake name to do it with. I mean, like, obviously fake. The other advantage of this was that I could go into the communities where people were adding each other and getting help and whatever and add tons of people without worries about them finding out anything else about me, but with a kid, yeah, you could just leave it friendless.

These games strongly incentivize inviting new people to become friends in the game. New friends are needed to get beyond certain levels and also give the player additional assets/points. You need to talk to your son and make it clear that he's not allowed to try to invite your friends. I'm sure he's long-since exhausted his own friends list and is desperate for more. Finding a software hack won't be enough. Also, make sure he has no ability to buy anything through the game. That's the other way you can jump levels if you don't have enough friends.