Can't find a job where I don't feel like ripping my hair out?

If you need to make the best of a bad situation here's some things I would do. 1. Have a staff meeting with everyone there (or as many people as possible) and set some norms for your team. How do we want to treat one another? How should we handle breaks? How should we handle scheduling and covering for other people when something comes up? If an issue comes up what are our norms for resolving this? If norms are set by the group they are more likely to be kept and it's easier for you to hold people accountable to adhering to them. 2. Work out a schedule that doesn't leave you all alone all day long. That's not reasonable and doesn't seem safe from a loss prevention standpoint either. You should have at least one other person in the store for some portion of the day. That would give you time to go sit down and relax for 30 minutes. 3. Get an employee handbook. If this is a large retailer, they must have something. Read it, have other employees read it. Those are the rules you must follow. 4. Do not participate in gossip culture. You can be friendly and when people try to engage you simply say something like, "oh that's not really something I pay much attention to, so can't really comment." Better to always assume best intentions. 5. Get to know your manager. Be proactive. Ask if you can have a regular check-in on the phone or in person, just 30 minutes every other week. It's a chance for you to ask questions and trouble shoot. 6. Whenever you're having a problem, come up with a proposed solution before taking it to your boss or other employees. Be solutions oriented. 7. Bring your lunch and take 30 minutes every day in the backroom/office/stockroom to eat and get off your feet. A quick sandwich and some fruit or veggies will help you feel better. Keep some trail mix in the office if you need a quick snack/protein/energy boost.

Here's what I'd suggest, stop jumping from one thing to another out of fear. Did you look for a new job, really searching for something that would be a good fit for your skills in an environment that you'd enjoy, or did you grab the very first thing that came along to get the hell out of that awful place? You can make this work, but you're going to have to actually work at it. 1. Schedule a one-on-one with your manager weekly. 2. Save up your questions and make one phone call and ask them all at one time. 3. No one can see what you're doing on your phone if it's in your locker. Turn it off when you're at work. 4. If you need to hire someone, put a Now Hiring sign in the window of the store, post the position on Craigslist and make sure there's a posting for the job on the corporate website. Ask the other associates if they know anyone who's looking for a job. Then interview and hire someone. While networking is great, you can't expect to use it for every opening you have. So what you don't know anyone. You'll hire in someone good. Also, find out what the procedure is for hiring new employees. 5. It's not your job to know everything about how your subordinates do their jobs, it's your job to manage them. So if you're asked how to do X, and you have no idea, cop to it, "Gosh Sylvia, I honestly don't know. Let's check out the Intranet and find out together. 6. Troll your intranet. See if there are Computer Based Training, or You Tubes or any online resources. Be resourceful! 7. Expect to work like a fiend until you're up to speed. Here's what I say about learning about new things. The first time it takes 2 days to do. The second time it takes two hours to do. From there on in, it takes 2 minutes to do. 8. Delegate what you can. Make someone the 'store trainer'. Praise this person's people-skills, explain that you think he/she is the bees knees at this. Let her come up with a plan, curriculum. 9. Find someone who is interested in the merchandising part of thing and have that person do floor changes and displays. Again, praise early and often! 10. Do quick one-on-ones with your employees weekly. Find out what's going on with them, what do they like to do, what do they hate, do they have any ideas for improving things? People are resources, use them! You don't have to do everything on your own. Give the other folks there an opportunity to shine. First rate people hire first rate people, second rate people hire third rate people. Stop reacting and start planning. Good luck!

Low-skill jobs generally suck. Get training or education to get into a better career field where you don't have to deal with this bullshit.

Scram: I used to agree about universities, until I ended up in a stressful job at one. My suggestion is to try to find some job that doesn't involve waiting on the public. Or dealing with money. Both of those just bring out the crazy abuse and ridiculous standards that employees can't possibly make.