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My boyfriend emails these online sex girls and sends pictures back and forth It hurts, to me it's like cheating,

  • I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and for 3 I never thought of the unthinkable, Then about 10 months ago he started a job out of town, he would be gone for 3 weeks, I was sad but I was ok. We would Skype everynight and stuff so we kept in contact verbally and sexually. 2 weeks into it I'm driving to work and I get a phone call and it's a guy who is working with my boyfriend out of town , he says your boyfriend has been texting my girlfriend back and forth trying to get with her and to get her in his room and telling her all the things he'd do to her. Shocked I hung up and of course my boyfriend had to admit it but his excuse was he wouldn't have gone through with it he sorry ect. I forgave him, 2 months later a girl tells me a about her friend he's been online getting off with, he said that he doesn't know why he did it he never has cheated on me it was cause I was working all the time and he hates my job and that I cheated every time I went to work, I work at a bar and because he hates it he says that was the same as cheating. So again I forgave him and then two weeks ago I found some real recent emails and he promises it will never happen again and he's willing to do whatever it takes but I'm broken and don't know what to do, I love him so much and I'm so hurt, is this fixable?

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    Anything can be fixed so long as both parties' willing to talk things over. Do the first move. Let him understand how you feel about it and if you matter to him then, he should do something about it and if he's not then, goodbye is the next thing to do probably if no one's gonna compromise.

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i completely agree with Treval. if he truley cares about you, he wouldnt put your relationship in danger and continue to hurt you. rememebr, no matter how much you care about somebody, YOUR happiness comes first.

yoandra.velez

If you weren't posting any of this or asking for advice and doing nothing... It's unfixable but the fact that your doing all this shit shows you like him so yeah it's fixable no doubt. A pimp slap or two and he'll be back to normal xD

WillsDTF

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hungnice

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hungnice

I've had the same issue in my marriage. I have an addiction to the feeling I get when desired by a woman. You might not be showing him that same raw erotic feeling he needs. But honestly from a guy (me) that has the same issue, it won't stop.

Jason_J8647

It is cheating. Can him, unburden a lot of grief and find a guy who wants a real woman.

Wylderest

Look at the facts .... Before this job came alomg your B/F lived with you .... and slept with you..so he had little time and opportunity to cheat. Now he's away from home ... and your body.... BUT his body continues to produce testosterone .... the male hormone that ampng other things causes erections, horniness and other sex traits. So what does he do? You figure it out.... As a man I would find it very difficult to be faithful were I in his position...

gberbasada

Honestly? I would say probably not. He's said multiple times that he's 'sorry and won't do it again', and every time he's lied. Also, you going to work is *not* the same thing as cheating. You are at work, and you're making money. I'm assuming that you're not doing anything that you'd be ashamed of your boyfriend seeing...and well. You've got to make a living somehow. Either way, going to work =/= cheating, even if he hates your job. However, from what you've said, what *he's* been doing would definitely qualify as cheating in my book. He's invited a girl up to his room for sex...and he was obviously serious enough about it to make her boyfriend [and I assume her, seeing as her boyfriend knows] believe he would go through it. The same with the other girl[s?], and I'm assuming he came off serious enough in the e-mails you found if you were hurt by them. The fact that he knows you're *not* okay with this and still insists on doing it, despite the fact that it crosses the boundaries you two set for your relationship? And he's doing it behind your back? That *is* cheating. So, it honestly sounds like he has no intention of 'fixing' this problem - just giving you lip service to smooth it over.

Treval

It is cheating

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