What is up with my girlfriend? Please help
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Okay so this might be a little long anyways. So my girlfriend has been very flaky the past 2 weeks. I haven't seen her in 2 weeks either. I tried seeing her twice but she bailed both times. I even asked her to hangout tomorrow and she was like I don't know if I can or not. After that she goes on to say after we've been talking 5 minutes oh I have to go do homework right now. Knowing that I had work an hour and that she followed that with I'm going to sleep at 8:30, 30 mins before I get home. If that's not weird enough I was joking around on her facebook post about her grammar jokingly and she decided to say this. "you forgot to wear your 'im a faggot' button today". Seriously who says that and there was no sign of joking or lol or smiley face or anything. Even my friends said dude wtf is with your gf to me at school. She told me it was a joke but who knows. What pissed me off was her best friend who hates me liked it so I felt like she is saying like f***k him. I generally don't get pissed at insults but this did for some reason. On top of all that she has been very unresponsive lately and makes it impossible to hangout she is like oh we can hangout *insert every day I work here* knowing I can't. She also won't talk to me more then 15 mins before stopping completely or saying she has to go. Yet she tells me all the time how she has nothing ever to do.. I have been dating her for a month now by the way and don't know what's up with her don't tell me just to break up with her. I know I could do that anytime but obviously I like her so I wanted advice not just for someone to say break up with her. I would really appreciate opinions on why she is doing that and what should I do?
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Answer:
Sorry to say this, but she is no longer interested in you, and is using the cowards way to show you as much. Maybe she's hoping you'll break up with her so she doesn't have to be the bad guy. If you want to take the mature approach, speak with her face to face and ask her why she'sacting the way she has. I doubt she'll be truthful with you, but this is the best approach...depending on her response you have to decide if you want to ride this crazy train or get off at the next stop and find someone who will show you some respect. You guys are only a month in...this is the time for lovey dovey. Good Luck.
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Other answers
Sounds like she's changed her interests (and that excludes you from the picture)
AIAR
She is a teenager and loses interest quickly in one guy and ready to move on. I don't think we have to tell you to break up with her because I think she already did it for you.
Wellduh
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