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What is gay/weird about a guy complimenting another guy's look?

  • First of all I do not see how it is gay/weird for a guy to say to another guy that he is handsome/good-looking/attractive and etc... Now I do NOT mean hot or sexy. I have heard my friends saying "You look good/great" or simply "Looking good (bro/man)" etc... One of my ex-close friend who was a HS football jock that has been dating with at least 4 girls and has no sign of being gay at all. When he saw my nice haircut he went like "(My name) No homo but you're sexy". I just thought that was nothing weird especially I know that he isn't gay. Honestly I do not see why people think it is weird/gay for guys to give such compliments to eachother. I have even heard TONS of straight guy friends telling eachother "I love you" which to me that means that they are good friends that cares for eachother and friendly/brotherly love. Same with me and my friends we say that to eachother as well. Please help me out here as this is seriously throwing me off.

  • Answer:

    It's all in how it's presented. "looking good"... perfectly acceptable in compliments to other guys. "Honey, you sure look sweet today." --- uhmmm, when told to another guy is "gay".

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In the modern world these things don't matter.anymore.

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Give up on this obsession of yours. Why are you so freaked out by someone's sexuality? You ask the same stuff over and over!

Wellduh

You just need self-confidence. One of the jobs where I used to work required sitting and staring at a display for hours. When Morey got this assignment he always fell asleep. One day I walked past him, bent down and licked his ear, then kept walking. He woke up, rubbed his ear, and looked puzzled. I was far enough away by then that he couldn't see me laughing. I still think it was funny as hell. I've never worried that I might be gay. LOL

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