Should i stop...i have met someone and fell in love with him. i am married and so is he. we complete each other and have so much fun. our mates have taken us through hell and high waters. i have 3 kids and thats y im still at home. he doesnt have kids.

If it's true that your husband took you through hell, then you should have thought about separation first and not about falling in love with someone else. When my marriage was in trouble, I searched for counselling and when it still didn't work, I went to my lawyer and started legal procedures. I swore to myself that I would never fall in love with another man again coz i was really devastated. I wasn't happy that my marriage was going to be ruined plus I pitied my kids too. Nowadays, I might have changed my mind about falling in love with another man however, when I look back I feel proud that I never cheated on my ex-husband even though we spent 8 years of pure hell. Cheating is never a solution to one's problems. Good luck and God bless you and your children!

Yes, Stop. You have a better chance to win the state lottery than both of you getting divorced and marrying into a happy relationship. Sorry, thats the statistics. Its always easier to have fun and a wonderful relationship with someone who does not have responsibility with you or to you and yours.

Fruit from a forbidden tree. You are asking for a lot of heartache and inflicting heartache if you continue.

The grass is usually not greener, either give your marriage your all or get a divorce, but I feel in the long run you will regret it.

this is my opinion so i think just bc u have kids that should not stop u from being happy!!!!! if u don't love ur husband anymore and found someone who makes u soo....happy and that makes u feel complete then nothing should stop u unless he if he doesn't want a divorce from his wife that means he just wants u as a side dish but if he goes through the divorce then it means he really loves u and he wants to start a real relationship with u so if u really want this to work with no regrets then u should not see him until u really think about this and understand what ur doing. i think everyone needs to be happy, and in time when ur kids gets older they will understand bc of course that should be a main reason that u should try to make this marriage work but i no this if u contiune to stay in a loveless marriage then kids r going to grow up seeing a loveless marriage and won't no the real beauty to be inlove with someone. good luck hun!!!!

yes you ought to stop. You arent being fair to your own family. You are lying and cheating to your entire family and arent even allowing yourself to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps you have fallen into the trap most stay at home moms fall into....Im bored, I have no goals, how do I fill my time? What you think you feel for this other married dude is misplaced emotion for whats missing in your own marriage. Wait till you and he get caught cheating. He wont leave his wife sister. He'll end up in therapy blaming his father for all his woes and eventually all will be forgiven with the wife. You on the other hand have more to lose. Your husband will lose all trust for you and will more than likely not want any part of you in his home. You did some pretty selfish things to him and your family. You have no one to blame but you. You and your husband need to learn how to communicate. Go to counseling. Get it out in the open. Why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home?

you should never have an affair. nor should you ever stay in a marriage just for the kids... good luck and best wishes for you and your kids

You do need to stop long enough to figure out what you're going to do. At some point the shit's going to hit the fan. You need to figure out what you intend to do when it does. I suggest you make a decision now and stick with it. If you decide to leave your relationship, do that for yourself. You may find later that the new guy you intended to be with isn't there later on.

Yes, you should stop, if either of you value your marriages. But you knew that, or you wouldn't have asked. Do the right thing.