How To Get The Guy You Like?

How to talk and get to know the guy I like better? Please help, I am so inexperienced!

• So im totally inexperienced and have already asked this question like five times but, I like this guy from a lesson I take once a week and we have been texting alot for the past few weeks. The only problem is I just want him to like me more, and I do not know how to flirt at all. I don't want to say things like "whats going on babe" or anything. Because I don't want it obvious I like him until I know he likes me. What are some examples of text conversations or in-person conversations that I could sort of lead so that I can kind of make him like me or find out if he does or get him to ask me out? I know it might sound kind of desperate but if you have advice or like sample conversations so that I can sort of lead the conversation that would be great. And also, I don't just want "oh the time will come" or "just be yourself". I mean I will be myself, but sometimes we also run out of things to say and I don't want to ever be obvious. I need like a sample conversation that might lead to him telling me if he likes me or asking me out. Nothing obvious that I like him yet. And I don't want answers saying to be yourself, because I do that, but I just need ways to talk tot him to make him like me. Right now, were just friends and i want to know if it can be more than that. Keep in mind, I have never been asked out or had a boyfriend so I really am inexperienced. i just need like examples of convos to either 1. get closer to him or 2. get him into asking me out or just to hang out but casually please please help And also, i am in high school and young, and completely and totally inexperienced. And I also dont want any "the time will come" answers because I want that "time" to come now with this guy. I just want to know if we can hang out or to know if he likes me. how can I get him to ask me out or to lead into a conversation that includes hanging out together since our lessons are ending? I have tried to talk to him about topics that might help to lead our convos to be someth

• Answer:

  Hrm. Quite a conundrum. I must reveal that I am old-fashioned. I don't text guys unless if I need to know something...they usually make the first move. So whenever they text me something and I feel like I want to flirt, I just make a play on the words that they had sent me. I don't really have examples...it's weird. I would just have to "show" you what I mean. Most of the guys that approach me are very confident in what they want (sex,dates, make-out) so I guess I've never had to really try and work at something for a guy to really notice me. I want to ask...do you text him first or does he text you? If you are initiating, stop for awhile and see if he will send you something. Do this for a few times. If he texts you first, obvi he's interested...either in a friendship or more, I cannot say. To casually hang-out with him, just say that you and your friends are going to hang out at the popular place that high school kids go to in your place. Make sure to do this a few times as well, but don't consistently ask him. Leave a chance for him to ask you to join something of his (show's he's interested in something if he does). And once your lessons end...make sure you keep in touch. Facebook, Twitter, texting, casual Starbuck's coffee to catch up on life if you are in the same vicinity. This is the only time that I would allow myself to talk to a guy. I would send a simple, "Hey! How have you been? Haven't seen you since {insert class}." He'll respond and once you feel the conversation beginning to die down, just say "We should definitely hang out sometime!" (Although he could lie and tell you sure...but you never know. Stay optomistic!) Also, I would get advice from a guy that isn't a douche because they would know what would usually grab a guy's attention. Yes, all men are different....and yet they are the same in some aspects. Sorry that I can't be of more help. I was really trying to find examples for you...but just found that all of the guys are very forward. I do tease a lot, but then again, I show people what I mean instead of just providing indepth examples. I hope I helped a little!