Why does my back hurt, I'm only 16?

A 28 year old man wants to have sex with me im 16 hes been asking me for 2 years will i do it when im 16. he is nice and i like him but will it hurt?

• Answer:

  Stay away from this man. No man should be asking a child from 14-years-old if he can have sex with them. He is only being nice because he thinks you will get with him. Tell your parents or teachers about him as soon as possible. A normal man of that age should have sexual partners his own age. What you describe is actually an illegal activity. It is called accosting a minor and at the least is a high court misdemeanor in most states. He could be charges with as much as attempted criminal sexual conduct (the actual charge varies from state to state). It is not likely that you can get into any trouble in this situation, beyond the obvious danger of sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy. Is it worth your life? He on the other hand could already be facing several years of incarceration and a lifetime of registration. Is it worth his life? You should tell your parents or a teacher. An adult in your life should be made aware of this. Do the right thing.