How do I get my boyfriend to be more interested in me?

How can I get guys interested in me? Maybe even a boyfriend?

• I'm nearly 15 and will be a sophomore next year. I go to basically an all-white school and the people there are mostly stuck up, racist (I'm black) and think that people who ...show more

• Answer:

  You might have heard this before, but please don't think of trying to just be whatever guys want you to be so that you can attract them. Don't get me wrong I'm not accusing you of being that way but when someone asks a question similar to yours I just get worried that they end up kind of letting go of their identity to just please people/guys and I just really don't want you to go their because I think you are worth much more than just trying to have guys approve of you. I just really hope you never end up in that place of doing too much and even letting go of certain parts of who you are for someone's approval. To answer your question, if guys aren't interested in you then that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. I think it means that you haven't met the person that is interested in you. Therefore, I don't think their is any advice I can give you about how to get guys interested in you...I mean, I think no matter what you do and no matter how you look there will always be some guys that are interested in you and some guys not, so I guess you'd rather just stay the way you are and wait to find the person that is interested in you. But don't forget, you need to be interested in him as well! ;) Have a good one, and always remember that you are beautiful just the way you are ;)