How do I get revenge on my ex girlfriend and the bloke she cheated on me with? I can't move on until they feel what they've made me feel.?

Yes, you can move on (and you should)....you have ZERO control over how other people choose to feel, so there's no guarantee that any action you take would cause them to choose to feel "like you felt" anyway...in addition to that, you'd be putting your karma into a negative balance, and it's just not worth it to try to get back at someone... The guy she cheated with, didn't owe you any loyalty...it was 100% her choice to go behind your back and betray you and the relationship....and her karma will have its balance in time...what goes around, comes around... As the saying goes, "Living well is the best revenge"...so get busy living well... Suggested category: Singles & Dating...

want to know the Best revenge? karma. the strength it takes to have patience and let them get whats coming to them isnt easy to muster. luck

Confucius say, "When you plot revenge, dig two graves." In your case, that doesn't mean one for your ex and one for her lover...the 2nd grave is for you. Seeking revenge almost always is just as harmful to the revenge-seeker as it is to the target. If your thoughts are so consumed with your ex, she's winning. When you move on, and reach the point where you don't give a fcuk where she is or what she is doing, that's when you win. Build a happy life without her in it...that's the best revenge. No, it doesn't happen overnight, but the sooner you set your sights on it, and forget about her, the sooner it will happen.