How can I keep my love life interesting without spending too much time and effort?
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I am 26 and a half, female, living at home with my parents in the suburbs, and working for a low paying job which gives me incredible experience. I would like to stay at home to save at least a little (or at least not draw from my savings since I earn so little), but would not like that to deter from casual dating. In addition to living at home, my home happens to be in the suburbs. I have very little interest in dating someone here. I spent the last three years in NYC where I dated a lot, and it's very different being back at home. In addition to living at home in the suburbs, I also don't really like LA guys. This is going to be a little prejudice, but I feel like the smartest and most accomplished men here are somehow tied to entertainment/film and I have zero interest in that world. I know LA (or more specifically, a suburb of LA) is not where I want to he long term. I'm hoping to save enough for a down payment on an apt in NYC while I live here for a couple years, and also hope by that time I can trade my low paying great experience job for a high paying great experience job. Through all this though, it would be nice to have a (even if it is a short-term) companion. For that I feel I would need to find someone smart and as "new York" as possible. How could I set myself up for that by spending the least amount of time and effort? NOTE: I also don't just want a guy who thinks he's going to get into my pants. That's not what I mean by casual dating. Thanks for your help!
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Answer:
Craigslist it's free and you should definitely meet some "interesting" people off there although their sanity may be lacking a little.
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There are really just two really efficient places to quickly meet men: Online Bars Why am I only mentioning those two? You can meet men in other places, but those are the two places that reduce general inhibitions for breaking the ice. (Initiating conversation with a member of the opposite sex is pretty intimidating for most men and women). Reducing inhibitions saves time. Since you are looking for a particular type, and it is much harder to control the type of men you meet at a bar, I'd suggest online dating on a reputable site. If you were willing to put more time and effort into it, I would actually suggest getting involved with an activity group that attracts the type of men you are looking for, though that would take much more time and energy. It is something to think about though, since it might actually produce better results.
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