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Do men really like to date girls as described in 'Date a girl who reads'?

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    Definitely. And I speak for myself when I say that- don't know about the other guys. At the risk of being accused of generalizing, I'm going to go ahead and say that most girls (not all!) I've come across have an emotional range of a teaspoon- with additional qualities of narcissism, vanity and hypocrisy. I'm not going to whine about friend-zoning the nice guy and dating the douchebag instead, or of double-standards and waiting for the "perfect guy" meanwhile toying with their plaything's emotions- we've all heard enough about that as it is. Coming straight to the point this question demands of me, here are the reasons why I would date "the girl who reads". (The Twilight Saga, Fifty Shades and Chetan Bhagat's unrealistic sugar-coated bullshit do not qualify.) I'm not going to deny that reading is a recent hobby that I picked up- about 3 years ago. That being said, I would date "the girl who reads" because she could help me expand my range of reading, help me explore my potential to feel things I never knew I could feel. She could also help me express myself in better ways than I could- our communication would be that much more simplified and meaningful, and at times words may not be needed at all. Normally, with the other girls I've dated who did not indulge in reading- after a while, we ran out of topics to talk about. In the beginning, it's all about the novelty of the relationship that keeps you going- the feel of it, the curiosity of who the other person is and what is so special about them that makes you so attracted to them. And that is what most conversations in the beginning of any relationship are about- getting to know the other person. And once you're done with that, if there's nothing enigmatic about them that holds you together, the relationship just dies out. With "the girl who reads" though, it wouldn't be a problem. Every new book she reads brings about changes in her thinking, her approach to life and relationships, and she will try to incorporate all those things that make it all better into your relationship. The best part is- she knows which goals are realistic and which are not, but that won't stop her from writing the most unique story of your time together. Your conversations will never be boring- and even if you do not agree with her on certain things, you know that her side of the argument isn't coming from an unrealistic whim. I am a sapiosexual to the core and a little moody at times, but still a hopeless romantic at heart. I have my moments when I simply don't want to talk to anyone, when I want to be left alone with my thoughts but secretly wish I had that someone who would understand me, talk to me about the things I like to think, to have an open mind about some of my crazy thoughts on life. And I know the only person capable of doing that with and genuine interest is "my girl who reads". P.S: I recently met such a girl, but I can't risk dating her- not because I'm a hypocrite but because our dads are quite close. I can't risk ruining their friendship if things don't work out between us.

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I can't tell how many times I've read that, and I still enjoy it. The spoken poem Girl Who Reads is a fun one too.  I would love to find a girl who loves books that much.  A girl who quotes authors at the right moment, or who smells the pages of older novels without caring who looks, because anyone that doesn't understand obviously hasn't taken in the aroma.  Nights inside with a hard rain beating against the windows, with a lethargic dog and the warmth of an oven, are best spent reading a book that feeds off your emotions.  A girl that prefers a night in to finish a chapter and fill a glass instead of go out to a bar is one that has more important things to do, or feel.  If she collects books faster than she can read them and is always finding creative ways to make book shelves we would be in trouble for space.  I have the same habits, and my books don't fit in my room, they take up the living room, they spread throughout my home and I can't keep up, but I find enormous comfort in collecting books.  I feel I am collecting ideas, some of knowledge, philosophy, history, and some of adventures I'd love to take.  I would date a girl as described in the question because she would captivate me.  I would date a girl who reads because her opinions and conversation would be profound, and she would stimulate my own.  She could pull ideas and passages from the depths of her strong mind to support her in any situation.  I would date a girl who reads because she would challenge me, and life would stay exciting.  She can feel intimately, think critically, act destined, and love intensely. The answer to your question is yes, and if he doesn't date her, he's a fool.

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See,a girl who reads is sensible.Men would like to date a no-nonsense,intelligent person who knows and owns her http://shit.It helps us know the world better.If you can keep sex aside,they would make interesting,intelligent girlfriends. But in marriage,you don't really want a person who has read n number of books.A man wants a wife who can adjust and respect his folk and has an easy-going approach towards life.She may or may not like to read. So It is interesting that it says you should date a girl who reads,but whether you should marry them,is upon you.

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