What would you do if you love someone and you come to know that he tell you lies & hides his personal life. Moreover, he wants full transparency in relationship from your side but he keeps all his personal things to himself only?

It'll be the toughest decision , taking the step to break with him ,knowing he loves you and even you <3 him. Just go , if he loves u, might be he'll change for you, if u leave him know. We men don't change until we realize what we have lost .

Previously u would have reacted very harshly for similar behaviour. So when he does the samething thing again fear comes automatically and that's the reason for hiding all those stuffs. So next time when he d same mistake u just show ur love as if u have more faith in him. This will make him realise and will keep ur love with you.

This guy is trouble.  There is no hope for this relationship.  He'll never change only appear to.  He's not ready for anything permanent and may never be.

The real question here is why you don't believe you are worthy of someone who treats you with true love and respect. By continuing to allow him into your life, you are telling the universe that you don't deserve anything better. Ask yourself: do I really believe that this terrible treatment is proof of his love? Often we find ourselves addicted to a rollercoaster relationship because it's intense - we fight, we make up. The highs are so high but the lows are horrible. Real love is rooted in mutual respect and honesty. My best advice is to cut off all contact with him. Clear space for someone who values you and treats you well. You'll be shocked how quickly the right guy comes into your life when you take a stand and demand only what's worthy of you. Good luck. XO

What I would do.   Leave.  In fact, would not bother to tell them that I'm gone.  I'd just walk away, and if ever that Deceiver saw me again, it would be on the arm of another gentleman and I would look right through him, and maybe, if it spoke, would ask, "Are you someone I used to know?"

Really, how can you truly say you love this creature? He lies, he cheats, he treats you with disrespect...wake up and dump him. It seems to me he's beaten you down so long and you have such little self-esteem that you think you are not good enough for anyone else. Well, summon up every bit of courage you have and say "Enough." Gather support around yourself in the shape of friends and family, change the number of your mobile (cell) phone and email address and take yourself off FB and Twitter if you are on there - or get another page and re-name yourself. Go out and meet new people, do NOT phone him, speak to him or go anywhere near him. I am quite sure that when you do dump him he will move on without a second thought about you and treat other girls as badly. Some day someone will "fill him in" as we say in Aussieland and he will be toothless as a result.

This person does not have the ability to form deep connection with you. It could be due to many reasons. Some examples are, you are too good for him or he is reserving himself for more options of another person.

When I was younger, I dated a guy for three years who was extremely jealous and controlling. He hated my friends and never wanted me to go out and do things. He, on the other hand, did whatever he wanted, when he wanted, and also cheated on me the entire time. He also told me that he loved me and wanted to marry me. I believed him for a while but eventually I realized that this was not love. It's control, manipulation and abuse. Remove yourself from this situation immediately.

I would first consider the reason he is lying to you. I see three reasons he would do that. 1. He wants to avoid the consequences od his actions. In this case he has done something wrong and he doesn't want you to know because he will be in trouble. 2. He wants to avoid your reaction to the truth. In this case he knows that the truth will upset you and he may feel that your reaction is directed at him unfairly. He may think you will misinterpret the truth in a way that will make you upset with him. 3. He thinks the truth is insignificant and telling the truth would lead to wasring time by having to explain something that really doesn't matter. This is most likely the reason he hides things from you, he doesn't think those things matter much and they aren't important enough to bring up. If he lies to avoid getting caught, he is a problem. If he lies to make you feel better or avoid your negative reactions, I think he needs to either get rid of you or tell you that you need to stop reacting that way over things that he has no control over. He may need to get away from you because he is basing his self-worth on your emotional state. That is unhealthy and he needs to learn to be himself and be able to be satisfied with himself without caring about what others do or say. When he wants total transparency from you he is likely saying that he wants to be completely honest with you. For that to happen he needs to feel like he can tell you everything without getting yelled at or abused for that honesty. That's a problem in many relationships. Honesty is rewarded with anger and resentment. When you are honest and the responce is anger or a fight or something, it makes you not want to be honest next time.