Foster kid. Should I find my real parents?

Given the history of violence it would probably be a bad idea.

Only if you really want to... I mean, if my biological parents were abusive and I was a foster child, I don't think I would want to know or get to know who they are.

That's a major dilemna. Trust your gut on that one. It could change your life either way.

Your a foster child. You have the right to see them. HOWEVER, if they were abusive, it is probably best to have someone go with you, maybe even more than one person. Good Luck.

i think , u must listen 2 ur heart

Why not, they still your parents and for sure they want to meet you especially your mother and they really don't want to be separated from them.

do you forgive them...if u do g 4 it find them

Well if I were in your place, I sure would want to. After all, they ARE your parents, and it would be great to finally see them right?

My late best friend was a foster child, and grew up in many different homes. The sole reason why he wanted to find his biological parents was to find other family who maybe wanted to know him. Didn't work out as both parents had died and there didn't appear to be any surviving relatives. While he was doing his search, he himself died after being hit by a drunk driver. I would want to know, realizing that it could be ugly. If, for no other reason, than to find out if there were other relatives who did want you, but were unable to foster you (say, an aunt who was too young, or an uncle who was in the service).