Why is it that guys can go for years without finding a relationship, but as soon as you're with somebody?

Careful, Ladies.... This one's getting wise to us. Enact Plan B. This is a direct order from Command Post. Over.

When it rains, it pours. I know the feeling. And where were all these hot babes from here 10 years ago?

I know many women who love the challenge. They try to steal men who are taken coz it makes them feel better about themselves when they accomplish the mission. Sad but true. Personally I can't take man-snatching. That's something I'll never ever do.

The old adage "When it rains, It pours" that's what I'm thinking.

It's ALL a conspiracy, Mad. I think it's just thaqt women are attracted to a guy that is already IN a relationship, because she KNOWs that if the woman you're with finds you attractive then maybe SHE will too. It's all that thing about the forbidden fruit. Women find that to be irrestistable BB, Raji the Green Witch

I never had much luck with women until the internet came along. I suspect its because the things I like and do in the local culture were not things that brought me in contact with people, much less women. When I did go looking for women, I was LOOKING FOR WOMEN. Too intense and really only one thing on my mind. And, I knew it and felt disgusted with myself about it, and it showed. On the net, I was just being sociable, and my sense of humor, such as it is, showed through. I wouldn't be LOOKING at that moment so more low keyed. The kind of women I like also have low animal urges :) and can joke about it also. So, no pressure and we could all have fun.

I agree with getmymoney. When men and women are not in a relationship but want to be, they are miserable and that shows in your outward appearance. However, when (especially when its new) you get into a relationship, your body and mannerisms change. You are more self confident and the opposite sex likes that. Then there are the endorphins your body creates, these hormones are working overtime in a new relationship and all involved are rather feverish. Others sense that in the same way that a male dog senses a female dog in heat.

Yeah Madpo .....That T-Shirt is even hypnotizing me!!!! You wanna hook up?...... NO.... NO.... Stop That...... I can't .... he's just soooooo....seexxyyyyy. Just dump the woman and your life will go back to normal.

wow dude. you are really hot. if you ever 'lose' the misses, you come look me up, ok?