How can I train myself to endure more emotional pain?
-
-
Answer:
Watch the news. Everyday. Watch the spectrum of human suffering and realise you're there already.
Adal Mirza at Quora Visit the source
Other answers
Brilliant question, but perhaps instead of enduring the pain you should not be pained at all. Taking things as emotional injury, not perhaps as a less abstract and more objective sense. When something emotionally pains you, you are affirming yourself as the weaker and you limit your perceptions to only yourself. Something that causes you pain is obviously negative so stand back remove yourself from the effect and ask why it causes you so much grief. Thus you thinking about these things more and can be constructive. Why is this happening and what can I do. Sorry I posted this as a comment first, I'm still figuring out the mechanics of the mobile version and can't delete it!
Elizabeth Coulton
It takes lots of time & tears. Eventually, you will become numb to it & ignore it. Just like on this app! Hahahaha. It will get better, hang in there. Cheers.
Steve Ruebush
Apart from Adals very good advice I would add: 1. Date more. 2. Get dumped more. 3. Say "Well, fuck it." or "Oh, well. Shit happens." and give an over-acted shrug when something hurtful happens and imagine yourself letting go of it. With practice it works surprisingly well. 4. Get a hobby that you can use as a distraction when the emotional pain starts. Number 4 might not really be training to endure it, but it gets you through it.
Lucas Lundström
You ARE enduring it. Just as you can't train yourself to endure getting hit by a bus......
Lois Ockner
This website is absolutely disgusting, not safe for work and obscene. http://www.bestgore.com Your discretion is advised.
Anonymous
Related Q & A:
- How can i go to San Francisco zoo from cal train station and wich the nearest cal train station from the sf zo?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- How can I get from Vechta to Hamburg by train?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- How and where can I train in soccer?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- How can I get cheap train tickets in Italy?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- How can I test my pain threshold?Best solution by healthtap.com
Just Added Q & A:
- How many active mobile subscribers are there in China?Best solution by Quora
- How to find the right vacation?Best solution by bookit.com
- How To Make Your Own Primer?Best solution by thekrazycouponlady.com
- How do you get the domain & range?Best solution by ChaCha
- How do you open pop up blockers?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.
-
Got an issue and looking for advice?
-
Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.
-
Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.
Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.