Do I move away 2 take up a job with great career prospects/salary &leave behind the perfect man I've just met?

There's no such thing as Mr Right. Take the job, your career will support you all your life, and my guess is that you'll find some one you really like there. And as for your current love, if he really thinks anything of you he'll want what's best for you not him.

Without meaning to sound pessimistic... what if the relationship doesnt work out and youve past up the opportunity of the job??? If its meant to be then it will be and the distance will not matter. If its still going strong when his course finishes then maybe he could move then. Look after number one! Good jobs and careers that you enjoy are hard to come by. Take the chance.

Dont want to sound like a cynical c*nt, but theres no such thing as the perfect man, or worman for that matter. Go for the job! Your life etc

Very Difficult Decision, Do you go with your heart or your head? 1st thing is, you have just met this man, how would you feel if you gave the job up for him and it didn't work out, would you be bitter?? On the other hand, if you move away and leave him will you ever be able to live with not knowing if he was the one? No one can make this decision but you!, sit down with him and find out what is intentions are (god how old fashioned does that sound). And then make your decision. If he tells you to go then is he as serious about you as you seem to be about him? Good Luck and i wouldn't trade places for the world.

Take the job!

Hey, The best thing you can do is put yourself FIRST!! Your career is most important who else can you rely on to support you?!! Let's put things in to perspective it may sound harsh for which I am sorry but at the end of the day you've been with this guy for one week is that really enough to throw away such a fantastic opportunity?!! I a guessing you don't have kids or mortgage so that you can up sticks and move so quickly so i say go for the job if he his the right guy things will work out if not cela vie there'splenty more fish in the sea and who knows who you might meet in this job!!

i can only tell you what i would do...i would take the job. If the job is as good as you say then you will be crazy to refuse, if this fella is as good as you say, he will find a way around it. can't he come with you and study in a different college/university? relationships dont always last anyway so do you take the chance with him and stay in the career your in now, or do you better your career and hope he understands its something you have to do for yourself. you said you have only just got together with him, ok its rubbish timing but do you think you'll ever get this job offer again? only you know how you feel about this lad and how much you want this job. you said hes away at the moment, if you asked him not to go, would he had listened to you and stayed? i doubt it, put your career first, men come 2nd (sorry boys)

Talk to your man and take the job,,No body is perfect..Not even your man..If he cares about you and I mean really care he will understand and wait for U to get your life together with this job and then you guys can work on being together agin..Don't let this maybe once in a life time chance pass you by over a man..

you just met this guy. if it was meant to be, it will happen. do what's best for you and your career. I know this is probably something you don't wanna hear, and it sounds cold, but what are the chances that this guy doesn't turn out like the 50% of men who cheat on their girlfriends/ wives? ultimately, it is up to you good luck