Can You Control Your Dreams And How Can You Do It? (If So Can You Commucate With The Dead?)?

Wow these are some pretty deep questions. First there is no evidence what-so-ever that anyone has ever communicated with the dead. Although many people feel they can communicate in their minds with loved ones that have passed away. There is no way to really prove they are right or not. But if it makes someone feel good to believe this I say let them. You can control your dreams to a degree. Before you go to bed think deeply about a particular subject and tell yourself you want to dream about this. Focus on it long and hard. There is a good chance you will dream about it when you fall asleep. However, there is no guarentee that you will remember it when you wake. Why do we dream? This is an age old question. First off all intelligent animals dream including all mentally healthy people of all ages. We just don't always remember our dreams. You only dream when you are deep asleep in what is called REM (Rapid eye movement) sleep. You can tell when someone or even your pet dog is dreaming by watching their eyes. If they are sleeping and you can see their eyes moving back and fourth under their closed eye lids they are dreaming. As to why we dream...there are only theories. The best one I have come across is that your brain relaxes when you sleep and the ramdom memories (often ones from that day or things that are bothering you) start to float around in your mind. Your brain is designed to view things in a "story" to make sense of them. Since the random thoughts combined together often do not make any sense to your brain it tries to make sense of them by combining them into a story. That is how you get weird disjointed dreams that seem natural when you are dreaming them but utterly non-sense when you are awake.

Yes, lucid dreaming....I do it all the time, however I don't do it on purpose it just kind of happens and doesn't last real long. I have done everything from watch someone die and try to save them, to cleaning LOL All i know is that when I do it I realize that I am in a dream but am far from being awake and from there I try to change things....in some of the "bad" dreams I end up crying in the dream and for real, I have been known to wake myself up on purpose and accidentally by yelling or talking...I don't know about other things like moving ...but I am sure I do that to. If It makes a difference I am not always a heavy sleeper and I dream often...there are some that feel VERY real until I of course wake or realize what is going on. It can be a bad experience or a good one depending on the dream so if you manage tread carefully I think that the whole talking to the dead through dreams could very well be...but like many things of that nature cannot be proven..it is all about the person who does it. I don't know what the purpose of dreaming is sorry. Dreams can take what you should know logically (like the death of someone you love who may be sick or time is getting close and you are worried) and brings them to your attention...doesn't mean you have any special abilities (not saying it isn't possible) just means you are facing things you may be denying in a conscience state...can't hide from it when your defences are down....understand?Hard to explain sorry!

you enter the field of the psy studies and yeas dead communiction is possible i do it to

I truly believe that you can communicate with the dead. My poppa who raised me was dying of cancer slowly and 3 days before he died he appeared in my dream and we were in some strange dimension. I was in a world full of monsters and crime but I could not see his. Seperating the two was a long ladder surrounded by cloud. He was on the ladder and he said goodbye I love you this is the only way I can say goodbye. The morning I awoke and my mum rang to say he slipped into a coma that he never awoke from and I did not get to say goodbye. I loved him very much but sometimes he still appears and offers " metaphorical" advice if that makes any sense. I have had many dreams that have been predictions that have come true and many messages from the dead I could go on forever telling you about them. I have heard it is your subconcious leaving your body into another dimension.

idk but dreams help solve ur problems thats actually a fact there is this thing called lucid dreaming and thats when u take control of ur dreams and there r people who actually go to a psychologist for lucid dreaming

okay, actually controlling your dreams is like getting struck by lightning, thats how big of a chance you will actually be able to control your dream, its rare to control your dream and its called a lucid dream, were you are aware its a dream but you take control of it. but i have heard of the dead communicating to love ones through dreams, or maybe they just dreampt they talked to the dead. the purpose of dreaming is so your mind can show you things it wants you to see or know.

I believe that once you realise it's a dream then you can control it and i'm not sure about communicating with the dead but i believe that they can send YOU messages =P

sometimes when i dream, my parents are there.. i havnt seen them in soo long... gah...

If you realize that you are in a dream without waking up, you can control it. No you cannot communicate with the dead. Also You Dont Need To Capitalize The First Letter Of Every Word.