What does it mean to have dreams about your ex?

This sounds strange: i keep having dreams about my ex. what does this mean??

  • Hi all. Okay so i keephaving dreams about my ex and its very strange. I was never that into him but... so i know that some dreams have meaning to them so what does this mean? This ...show more

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    You associate him with security while you date sleaze bags. He was the safer bet, but in reality he doesn't 'DO IT' for you.

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What do the dreams entail? Often, people we know are in our dreams not as themselves, but as an aspect of ourselves or an abstract ideal. The dream is not about whether he still likes you. It's about your feelings and may not even be about relationship feelings. I once dreamed about a friend I knew in highschool for 6 months after my grandmother's death. Turned out my mind was using a comfortable face as a sounding board. I finally had a long talk with my friend in my dream and came to terms with my loss. Never dreamed about him again. It didn't mean I was in love with him or missed him. He was just a strong person in real life and that's the kind of person I needed to talk to. Were you having sex? Coz I'll tell you right off the bat, sex in dreams isn't about sex. It's about lost closeness in relationships, a desire to be friends, or even just your mind's way of admitting you need closer confidantes. Were you arguing or falling? Could be he represents things in yourself you feel out of control on. Having him in the dream is a way to confront yourself without actually having to take the time and really think about your current life. That's just a few ideas, really, I'd need to know the dream to be more specific

Ananke402

Ok first of all dreams are strange things. Could you be getting a message your subconcious is trying to send you possible . But chances are you are going to read it wrong and everbody else also. You could be having them because you are thinking about him or your brain is just using him from your memory. The brain is a strange thing nobody really understands and dreams are a way for us to dump unused material from one place to another or move it or just make sure its still there. Kind of like a hard drive disk defragment. Yes your subconcious does have a mind of its own so to say , but i doubt its something mystical.

phillip

It means......YOU MUST MISS HIM!

snowbunny360

i broke up with my ex over a year ago and i still dream about him , i think its because we shared sum thing special (hope my current boyfriend doesnt see this) i say you still miss him and its ok but it needs to stop

missbee

Oh, man, I have the same experiences, but it's usually two different old boyfriends. One is always my first boyfriend that I had in 2nd grade through 5th grade [ah, young puppy love]. And the second one is the last boyfriend I had before I met and married my husband. I find I usually have them during a time when I feel a little lonely or neglected from my husband. And I've had a hard time getting a good answer to this. So, I say that to me, they represent something that I need or miss from my relationship with my husband. Because once I reconnect with him, they go away.

dancingirl

my guess is that the dream means you have some unresolved issues with him or your relationship or the break up itself. your mind is trying to find some resolution in the dreams that you didn't get in 'real life' . this doesn't mean you should go back to him to work things out. it just means you have to figure out what it was you needed to learn that you haven't yet and move on. then i'm sure the dreams will stop.

bob s

you having night mares! I'm so sorry, good luck

Jan Luv

babe he is still in your heart try to make it rite and still if it doesn't work then don't worry dreams are just dreams

rugs

it means you need to go with the flo and let me throw you a "bone"

Timeflo

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