Are there any Massachusetts Homeschoolers around?

Is this enough proof to those who throw around stereotypes about homeschoolers?

  • This article http://www.hoover.org/publications/ednext/34685614.html disproves many of the stereotypes thrown around here. The statistics prove that most homeschoolers: Are not ...show more

  • Answer:

    I am an advocate of both home and public schooling depending on what is best for each family. My sister and I have done both with our families. I think it is wonderful when a family can feel free to do both. Children are individuals and need individual evaluation and attention. There is a local family where I live that sits down each school year and talks to each of their children to see which ones want to continue home schooling and which ones think they would benefit from public school. They home school all their kids until grade 6, and then start an individual plan for each older child. I think this is great. If U can't instill your beliefs in a child by age 11 or 12, then that window has been missed anyway. Very few people I know do home schooling because they want to isolate their kids. I started out home schooling & ended up putting my girls into the public school system & then started teaching there myself. My sister did the opposite -- she started out in public school & then pulled her 4 kids and graduated them from home. I believe we should have acceptance and flexibility in this matter. Most of the teachers I work with in the public schools where we live are very devoted to the children they teach, and most are Christians themselves, so I think we are in good shape as a community.

26KAPEOAELGHFVNFIUSZVJLXJ4 at Yahoo! Answers Visit the source

Was this solution helpful to you?

Other answers

I'm sure that there are some people out there who fit the stereotype, otherwise it wouldn't have become one. However, I believe that stereotypes are usually untrue and unfair. I've recently discovered homeschooling, and no one that I've met fits into any of the regular stereotypes.

Josaline

Honestly, I doubt one article is going to change everyone's mind. I've never met a home schooled kid who fits the stereotypes any more than any other kid could. I know some very religious people who home school, but I also have some neighbors whose kids go to school who give uninvited opinions about us not going to church. What would change schooled people's minds is knowing more home schooled kids and their parents and interacting with them. The kids need to hang out together and have friendships, not just see each other for one dance class or martial arts class a week. Often there isn't much interaction happening between the kids there. Being part of a little league team or community swim team where they practice together a lot would make those friendships happen, They can do things like go to the team parties and hang out together, invite kids over on the weekends who do or don't go to school, that's how kids get to know each other. Parents need to feel that the other parents aren't judging their decisions or opinions. They need to feel that their kids aren't being compared. I've heard too much unfair judgment coming from adults on both sides, and either way it doesn't help.

My wife and I are Christians who home school our children. To say we home school for religious reasons would not be accurate. We initially were drawn to home schooling before we even had children because of the examples of some of our friends. We wanted to me more involved the educational experiences of our children. We were both public schooled and had no qualms about it. We enjoy home schooling our children and will continue to do so, God willing.

Wow, bob, so you would rather make generalizations about the entire population of homeschoolers because of your experience with exactly two homeschooled children than pay attention to the evidence presented in that article or by others on this forum? That's...brilliant. Anyway no, I don't think anything is ever going to be good enough for most of the people who toss around stereotypes. For the people who are genuinely curious, the article might help, but I think it won't have even the tiniest influence on most people.

Aya

not really 2 kids at my church are home schooled they have barely any friends always go out with their parents only play very weridly and they act weird and annoying they once came to my house for a bible study and the girl took everything in my room and put it in a different room cuz she wanted to play with it and the boy was watching me play video games and he was like spazzing out and shaking and screaming and i had to yell at him to be quit so they also dont listen very well

bob

The stereotypes serve a purpose for the people quoting them so I'm afraid no amount of evidence is going to make them stop. If you have an anti-HS agenda you really only have stereotypes and individual cases where it didn't work out to support your case.

firebird2110x

I have homeschooled my two boys and sure do not fit into the profiling. But on the other side profiling is done for a reason. It is true for a lot of people. rd

ronnny

I didn't read all of the article, but... I think for some, homeschooling can ge a great thing... For me, it hasn't...I can only talk from my experience. These last four years (My high school years) have been the loneliest, and depressing years... I can honestly say, if I didn't have a hope of my life being different by going to college, and having friends and a everyday life, not having to go do a godamn bullshit church to have friends... I would have killed myself by now... I'm not kidding either...Literally...Trust me, I've already contemplated the thought... So, I hope other people don't have as a lonely, and depressed homeschool (For high school) as I've had... And I KNOW my life would have been different, I was in a ******* # 2 box office movie...I've been on the tonight show with Jay Leno three times...I've been in 5+ tv shows... These years, I should have been going to parties, having girlfriends, everything! Instead, I'm a washed up child actor (Now I am) with hardly any friends, no life, and very little social skills, and no memories from the times I should have had them... But anyway, sorry for the rant... But I live up to alot of the stereotype, so to me...It's just a simple fact...

Pain Is All I Know

No, I've resigned that I will be defending my wonderful, smart, healthy, and VERY social kids with my last breath!! It makes me angry that my kids are stereotyped.

April The Great

Find solution

For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.

  • Got an issue and looking for advice?

  • Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.

  • Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.

Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.