My boyfriend is going to UC Berkeley?

Academically UC Berkeley is a FANTASTIC school. Socially it's a bit different. I have a friend who went to school there and met her husband in her classes. Her hubby has always been a bit off... 10 years later she has finally decided he has Aspergers Syndrome, which makes perfect sense based on his behavior She justifies not figuring out earlier as = all the people up there are a bit odd, he fit in with the odd-ness. Now that she isn't around the odd-ness everyday, she sees that he is different.

Berkeley does not have many hot girls at all..and there isn't a huge party atmosphere.

Yes, Berkeley does have some, but the student body is generally more academically focused too. Parties,,,depends on whether or not he gets invited or knows where to look.

It doesn't matter what school he goes to. Life will be changing for the both of you.

UC in Berkeley is 40% Asian and serious international students. It is very competitive. Not a party school. Difficult to get in, so he would not jeopardize his admission.

Have you seen the movie legally blonde? Many relationships where partners are far away from each other fail. That is the truth unless you are married. Focus on finishing your education and making something great of yourself. Do not let your heart get broken over one human because their are millions of them. Look at actions and motives. Many men have many women in many cities and this can spread diseases. I do not know your boyfriend. He may be honest and nice. Save some money and hire a private investigator to let you know what he is really doing. It does not cost much.

Ok. First. Unless the school is an uber strict religious school or something, every school is a party school haha. I live in California. People here like to party. Haha. However, that doesn't mean you automatically are a partier if you live here. There are lots og people who stay out of all that. And its college. There are bound to be a lot of hot girls. I live in California. There are a lot of hot girls here. Or maybe the girls just flaunt themselves more. Idk. I would think that at Berkeley, the girls would be more conservative, but it's college. People get crazy there. Its not really my place to say, but If you are truly, legitimately worried about him cheating on you... Maybe that's not such a great relationship. This could be a test of his loyalty though. :p that's good. Hope I helped :)