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How can you tell when he is flirting?

Should I just message this girl I find attractive? How do I tell the difference between friendliness and flirting? How fast is moving too fast, as far as asking her on a date and so on? What are some ways I can tell if she finds me attractive and is interested in me?

  • There is this girl I find attractive and she seems really cool through some talks we had during work. Problem is I'm not sure when will work together again if ever. We follow each other on Twitter and honestly I think this could really be the pushing force for getting over my ex. It's not a rebound but of course it'll help like it has been and we're not even dating. So yeah should I just message her? How do I tell the difference between friendliness and flirting? How fast is moving to fast as far as asking her on a date and so on? What are some ways I can tell if she finds me attractive and all? I'm sorry I'm just AWFUL with girls/woman. I'm 18, and she is single. If it helps some questions she asked me (initiating conversation) was what grade I was in, if I'm going to college and if I have a job. I may be thinking to hard but those are some "foundation" questions?

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I know this sounds mean but... Just shut up and ask her out. You are sitting here wondering about all the negative outcomes and it will only drive down your confidence and your chances of making a good impression. Who cares if she likes you. Find out the hard way.

Juan Gallardo

Dude you are being a paranoid. I can understand the nervousness in you but you are thinking way toomuch. Don't mess with your head, don't stress yourself so much. You gotta keep your calm, be cool n chilled - that's how you deal with girls. Nervousness will be your biggest enemy and you certainly don't want that. Take her to a restaurant, sit back, relax and talk to her as though you are talking to your close friend. Trust me that works. Forget about winning over a girl's heart or impressing her. Just express what's on your mind in a decent way and things will work out by themselves. You don't have to stress yourself to work out few things.

Shiva Kumar Chittamuru

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