How do you ask a girl to hang out when she barely knows you?
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I met this girl and we only talked once in one on one conversation because all the other times there were always people around so it was never really intimate talking, it was always casual. She doesnt even know me at all and school is over so the only way for me to get close to asking her out is asking her to hang out over text and hoping she will meet up with me somewhere. But she doesnt even know my interests or anything about me so if I ask her to hang out she will be like "this random guy from school is asking me to hang out when I dont even know him". She will think im a creep. How do I ask her to hang out without seeming like a stalker?
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Answer:
Know her first. Try with simple smile. How will she go on 'date' with you unless she knows you? So, make yourself known by talking about anything interesting. But, whatever interests you doesn't mean it will interest her too. Therefore, try to find out through her friends, cousins, etc. Do not chase or stalk her in any case, she may be distracted to other ways and your chance of date might be a dream forever. All the best!
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Anonymous
I'm not good in expressing my feelings but I know a little abt girls.. The relationship you have with her at the time is nothing, it's just like you trying to show that I'm one of your class mate, if you try to tell abt your crush to her then her first words will be like "hey I'm not interested in love and moreover you are a good friend to me, so sry"and remember that would be the last day you will talk to her. First try to make a common friend between you and her, And make sure that friend knows something abt you, just keep in touch with her . Be yourself don't try to act smart which is not our actual type , try to be friendly then only you can get her number. And before everything just ask her whether she is committed or not that's more important . your college life would change your style so until then keep in touch with her . meanwhile her college life will also be different and that is why you have a common friend to know what is happening ... my advice never talk abt studies talk abt you or her (I would prefer 'her'). you need to tell her abt the crush only in person not via anything. All the best :)
Karthick Kannan
if you see her sitting by herself just walk up to her and casually and ask her if the other seat is taken if the answer is no ask her how her day is going and then after you guys start talking ask her is she wants to get coffee on a specific day and time and see what she says. Just remember if she rejects you it will only make you stronger and you will get better at asking girls out. Good Luck. BTW I have a situation like that as well where we have talked before but I barley know her. I am asking her to coffee this weekend
Jonathan Leibel
A2A:- Almost same case is with my roommate. I would suggest that you must try to be a good friend before asking her out. In these holidays try to become a good friend of her. Try to know her and also try to show how good you are. In the mean time you will give her as well as yourself enough time to think about you both. If you directly go to her and ask her to go out, she may think that you are a kind of person you asks out to every girl. Therefore I would rather suggest you to first be good friends and then take a step ahead.
Habib Ansari
We can't give you an ideal answer on how you start a conversation with her (who knows what the next opportunity/location/situation will be) but once you're talking and if it feels like she's enjoying the conversation, ask her if she's seen movie X. If she hasn't, maybe suggest you could go together? Or if she doesn't like that movie, see if she has another she'd like to see with you? You don't need to worry too much what you say, really. If she's into you, she'll grab the chance to go out on a date with you.
Logan Kelly
Best idea is to put forward ur friendship hand in this semester ...try to know her well...take vacation time to transform ur personality and tell her ur feelings in next semester....!!! P.S.- Try ur best to be friend with her in this semester so that u can utilise ur whole vacation and the time left in this semester to create some emotions at least of friendship, then love will usually come...worry not...!!! All the best :)
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