What are your plans for Christmas and New Year's?

I dated for 3 1/2 years and have now moved in with my girlfriend. She put's her adult children ahead of me and our relationship.

• I've was dating a woman for over 3 years. One year ago, we moved in together. We are not married but it's something we've both talked about and want to do - we just want to not rush into. We want to make sure this thing is right as we are both divorced and want a second marriage to work forever. She is a very hard worker. She is a great cook and great decorator and keeper of the home. The only problem is, she puts her adult children first not matter what. Some facts: 1. She has a 25 year old, married, adult son who has been in trouble with the law many times and has made very poor decisions. He spent time in jail for jury tampering and selling drugs. He is married to a woman that has many of the same characteristics. 2) She always puts her adult son first. He'll call her and say something like, "They are going to turn off my electricity tomorrow if I don't pay the bill and I don't have the money". She'll go online and send him money right away. Month after month, this type of thing happens. 4) I also have adult children. As I said, we've moved in together. We still keep separate finances as we are not married and we both, as I said, want to make sure the relationship will work before marriage. The agreement we have is, I pay the rent and many of the utilities. She pays gas and electric (about $300 per month on average). She works hard but does not make a lot of money but plenty to meet those obligations. I work hard as well and make about 5 times what she makes. Last year, she told me she was going home for Thanksgiving. Her "home" is Wisconsin though we live in Georgia and she's been here over 20 years. Her previously mentioned adult son and his wife and her granddaughter live there. I told her that was fine by me and I totally understood. She was there two weeks. Two days before returning, she told me she was going to go back for Christmas. We had previously made plans to take a trip between Christmas and New Years - I had actually bought airline tickets

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