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How to flirt with a married woman?

why would a self proclaimed married, straight woman text, call, interact, and flirt with a lesbian every day?

  • We work together, she's 35 and i'm 27. We talk all the time. She calls me in her office (I'm like her assistant) and we talk about really personal stuff (mostly her). She texts me almost every night (I NEVER initiate the text) She told me once she thought she was a 0 on the Kinsey Scale. I immediately stopped talking to her for a couple hours at work, and she called me and asked me why I hadn't come to see her (and then added she could be a 1 on the scale). She calls me on her way home and talks to me until she gets home (while i'm at work). I just don't know what to make of it. I've become quite attached to her, considering this has been going on for almost 5 months. I can't talk to anyone at work about it, or my friends. As for her flirting, she'll touch me very lightly, or play with my hair (even after I tell her I hate being touched). She will tell me she misses me if she has to go to another county for work, tells me i'm funny all the time, and calls me "babe" and "baby" at least once a day. I've tried to see how she interacts with everyone else at work, I just think my judgement is clouded. To add a little perspective, it's been said she married her husband because he's rich, she loves everything I could never give her (diamonds, expensive cars, and money) and is very clear that everything is all about her. She also says she has to delete our messages because he gets super jealous (but also adds she has to do that with her own brother too.)

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    It's a difficult one. She likes you as a person, whether she loves you is something different. It sounds like she needs the emotional attention - which you give her. If she cared about you she would discuss you as well not just talk about herself. Try and steer the relationship back to a professional level and make more lesbian friends. Spend you energies on someone open and honest. I can talk from experience and you can never guess her motive - it will tie you up in knots - there are better lesbian, single women out there. Emma, uk.

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She wants to?

Anonymous

Why don't you just tell her you have a regular girlfriend?

Neelie

You say she does most of the talking..... seems to me you can go on and on ... Is your imagination working overtime?

gberbasada

wow, no wonder you are confused, I would be too!! I think that she wants to be your friend, and I wonder if she wants attention from you and that is why she's being a bit touchy feely. If she married her husband just for his money then obviously she doesn't have a satisfying relationship with him, poor guy. I think this is a very convoluted situation. Do you want to be in a relationship with her? Are you hoping that she IS flirting? It's perfectly possible that she is bisexual and testing the waters, but even if she is, is this the sort of relationship you want?

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