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How To Get Him To Propose?

How to get my boyfriend to propose to me without an ultimatum?

  • I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I've known him for 8 years. I want him to propose to me but I don't want to give him an ultimatum. I could be patient a bit longer until after I finish college (I need 1 more year). I want to get married and start becoming ready in order to have a baby. We're both young, I'm 18 almost 19, and he's 22, we're basically almost settled down besides the marriage part. We've lived together since I turned 18, we're stable with income and in our relationship. He told me a few months ago that he wants to make me his wife one day, so I know he does want to get married sometime. What's stopping him? What should I do?

  • Answer:

    You dont, if he wanted to marry you he would have asked you already. You are a big girl, ask him to marry you.

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Thriftymaid

You're too young for marriage, be patient!

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Don't rush into this and chase him...let him do the chasing and give him a purpose to marry you.......when he FEELS he has a purpose in your relationship he will become "your guy".. not before.......he needs to FEEL YOU ARE THE ONE....stop convincing him you are the one.........in the meantime do your own thing and stand in YOUR power...that is what he will FEEL....YOUR POWER...it will be UNIQUE from all others..to HIM....! Anyway you are both very young ...give yourselves a chance to really mature.....when the space between the ear and elbow is empty in young adults they feel the NEED to fill it with something.......let it be EVERYTHING when you do MARRY.

try2help

Best way is to be the best partner you can for him and never EVER nag him for a ring. It will do the opposite. If you are good to him, and he loves you, he will realize you are a keeper. Plus you are super young, don't rush it.

MtDew

You really can't, although why don't you just ask him. It is in your power, and then you can finally know for sure where his heart lies.

Donald_W8989

We need relationships but we should not depend upon them completely for our happiness. Marriage is good but too often people expect too much from it like it is some kind of panacea which it is not and then they only end up despising the other person for not meeting their expectations. Please understand that as much as you want marriage and children the natural order of things is that those come out of a relationship rather than being ends in themselves. If you engineer a proposal from him through subterfuge or through an ultimatum he might end up resenting you for having done so and you could end up resenting him for feeling you had to resort to such things rather than it coming from his love for you. His own plans sound rather vague and I am guessing he does not feel ready for the responsibility of marriage. If you are afraid of his leaving you which leads you to want to "secure" him through marriage and a child please know that in the end that will not work. You are both quite young and there is no rush if you are enjoying your relationship. If you are not enjoying it you should not be with him.

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