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How to get my girlfriend back when she broke up becasue she doesnt think it will work?

  • I have(had) a very good girlfriend for half a year, then suddenly she told me that she doesnt think its gonna work and she broke up with me, and i try to get her back, what should i do? (please read the story, i know its long but it will help you understand me more) So the long story,it was more than 2 years before when i first saw her, it was love in first sight to me, i was so attracted to her. So i got her facebook and started talking and knowing each other, i didnt get her number till half a year later becasue i didnt wanna scare her of something. And yes half a year later i got her number and we started texting,and we texted so much everyday. then 2 months later i told her i was in love with her, which she was surprised but she told me she didnt want a relationship now, but i told her ill wait. So 2 months later, it was valentines day, i asked her out as friends, nothing happened on that day but it was lovely. it was a long time to wait, then things got angrier i suppose, because i get jealous so easily, in the next half a year things werent so happy, i was mad because she texted less, a lot less (and we never talk on phone and meet). Plus there was this guy on her facebook posted something like i love you babe, and she replied i love you too hunny, so i was really angry and it hurt. but i got over it and after that tough half a year things got nicer, we saw the second time, and things got more 'relationshipy', she told me she would give a try, so we started a relationship, it was around the valentines day this year. So we are together, and it was so so lovely that we both were very happy i could tell. and it got to a point where i slept with her few nights, so it was a serious relationship. but around 3 months later (so May) i told her that i felt like im gonna cheat, i didnt mean it of course i just had that feeling becasue my dad cheated too so i thought there was possibility in me. But she went mad and everything, she didnt talk to me for few days, but

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    You can't.

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everything what you have said shows that you are more interested in her. you cant make somebody be with you no matter how much you like them. to be honest you had no right to be mad at her for talking to another guy on fb because you wasn't in a relationship and after waiting all that time she gave you a chance then you say you think you might cheat. no wonder she ran a mile any girl with a head on her shoulders would do the same.

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we saw and i persuaded her that i will never cheat. And i thought i really did persuade her, but it turns out it was a spike in her heart so few days ago she told me that she doesnt think we should be together anymore, becasue she doesnt think it will work, and we are not right for each other. She also says because we disagree on everything (which is true, but we never argue or fight) that makes us not right for each other. I told her there is no perfect couple, we just have to accept and change to make the relationship work, but she replied she wont change her personality to make it work. I want to know what did i do wrong, well i possibly know, because we are different, some things that she likes i might not, so she felt like she had to be careful of what to say and what to do, which she didnt like, and she said she doesnt like changing so much for another person casue its not right. But she has no idea how much ive done and changed for her.. So people please, give me some advice on how to get her back, im so in love with her that i dont think im gonna fall in love with any other girl, so please dont tell me to leave her and get on, i just want to get her back

nigjak95

Never try to get a girl back. Go to Baggage Reclaim instead. http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk EDIT: I read your whole description now. Looks like it got cut off. But I don't blame that girl at all. She doesn't sound like she even wanted to be with you in the first place, but decided to give you a chance because of how obsessed you were with her. And then you told her you thought you were gonna cheat. What did you think would happen? Sounds like she is better off without you and you aren't ready for a committed relationship. EDIT: Just noticed your answer where you included the rest of what you said. You need a serious dose of reality, man. She doesn't want you. And she shouldn't have to be with you just because you are obsessed with her. "Persistence: It's over, man. Let her go." Found on: http://www.despair.com/persistence.html

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