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Should I break up with him? (multiple problems stated in description)

  • So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over two months. Before we started dating we had talked for a while, but I was also very fond of another guy who has been a great friend of mine for years, and he felt the same way about me. In the beginning of my boyfriend and I's relationship I made sure to constantly have my phone on me so I could text him, and I always wanted to be around him, but now I feel as if he's just annoying, egotistical, and not lenient in any way, and I find myself trying to avoid hanging out with him and I make excuses almost every time. However, He compliments me all the time, even when I tell him not to, and he always tries making me feel good about myself, and while its a really sweet thing to do it almost get to be too much. I haven't been very sexually experienced, but we make out all the time and I did give him a hand job a couple weeks ago, but I just don't think I have feelings for him anymore because Ive found myself constantly trying not to look at the guy I was interested in before, and I can't stop thinking about the other guy, even though his reputation of a "man whore" is what made me and this guy break off our romantic touch because I was done with his bullshit, and yet I only want him more now which is confusing and a pain in the ass. The second problem is that my best friend and her boyfriend literally just broke up 2 days ago and everyone always said that if one of us was to break up with our boyfriend the other would do the same which in this case would be completely coincidental, but it wouldn't look very good on my part. The third problem is that if I break up with my boyfriend I have no idea what the other guys response would be if he's even interested in me anymore even though he told me he would always be. and the fourth problem is simply if I was going to break up with my boyfriend, how should I do it? I wouldn't want to be a bitch and I wouldn't want it to seem so easy for me because its obviously not

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    Break up with your boyfriend. He's a wimp and you don't respect him anymore. You're prolonging the inevitable by staying with him. As for your friend... If you aren't sure that he's going to be the ONE, then you will most likely ruin your friendship after the break up. I've seen those become marriages, but more often become the end of a friendship... As for the man-whore, you only want him because everyone else does. Right now, in your head, you're making up reasons that I'm wrong and why he's really awesome... 1.) I'm not wrong. 2.) He's probably a cool guy. 3.) It will never work. Anyways, you're obviously so young that one day you'll realize that this whole thing really doesn't matter and that you probably should have studied harder and gone to college. Believe me: Study hard, go to college. I wish you all of best.

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I don't know anything about him, but YOU have obviously lost interest in him. He is not what you thought he was. There's nothing wrong with that; it happens. But if you HAVE lost interest, what is the point of hanging on. The relationship is going downhill. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you apparently find conceited and annoying and "not lenient". How to do it: have a private talk with him. Tell him how you feel and that you think it is just better that the two of you part company. THEN stay away from him; don't get his hopes up that you might take him back. And don't talk about him and why the relationship crashed to your friends; let him keep his dignity.

DeepDark

I'm sorry, luv, but we don't know him like you do. Based on what I've read I could go either way, but no one can decide better than you. If I was you, I'd break it off with him, but my judgement isn't the best when it comes to relationships. Maybe you could ask some friends or family what should happen. =) If you DO choose to break it off, I reccommend doing it in person, and most cordially stating that though it's been a pleasure, the relationship just isn't working out for you anymore and that you think both of you would be happiest with someone else. Of course, leave it perfectly open to just be friends and all that rot; it sometimes assuages the guilt the other person would have. Best of luck to you!

JoJoTheUnicorn

Problem 1: Typical girl wanting what she can't have. Women all want a man who is so great that he can get sex from lots of women, so you're not alone, although the reasoning makes no sense. Problem 2: You're very immature to make such a pact with a friend. Totally ridiculous. Problem 3: What is this thing about you needing to be with someone the minute you break up with your bf? Totally immature as well. You break up with someone because the person isn't for you, not because of other stupid reasons which make no sense to anyone over the age of 18 with half a brain. Problem 4: Just tell him you need a little time to yourself, that you feel smothered and think it's best for both of you to go your separate ways and still be friends.

chillione

Too late about the bitch part. You obviously do not have romantic feelings for this guy any more so cut him loose and let him find someone who cares about him. Whatever little games you play with your girlfriend have nothing to do with this guy and is solely your problem. Staying with someone you are not interested in for fear that someone else won't come along is simply being mean and cruel to that person.

Gingerminx

Move on and find someone better.

navyboy

Do to your age you have no business giving your boyfriend a hand job, or breaking up with someone is not a group party. A relationship at this point will only be a disaster for you at your tender age, as you're unable to make mature decision without rational understanding of simple consequences.

onewizeman1957

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