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my kid wants invite only 6 girls out of 11 girls for birthday party? what wrong with all girls to come?

  • my daughter said, few girls are mean to her... few girls are boring, no fun to be with. she decided only 6 girls to come her birthday party. I'm afraid other 5 girls will find out and disappoint for not invite. is my daughter right or not? all girls must come or no birthday at all? any suggestion?

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    Sounds to me like your daughter has a good head on her shoulder. It is her party and she should be able to descide who goes. What fun will she have if theres someone there that is always mean to her?

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I agree with the others; your daughter wants a fun party with no "mean girls" around. We all know how they are! I would definitely abide by her wishes and only invite the ones she wants there. You can explain to her that this might mean she will not be invited to some parties in the future, but more than likely she won't fully be able to understand that until it happens. We had one miserable birthday party with one girl who wanted all the attention and really ruined the party for everyone else; it's not a good situation, expecially for the birthday girl. Limit who attends; your daughter may be doing you a favor!

Poppet!

It sounds like some of the girls might be bullys its sounds like and she doesn't want to be embarrest by them if she invites them so it sounds like she is trying to keep that from happening so she is only inviting a select few.

softbabe44

It's her birthday, let her invite who she wants.

TheLightWorks

Its HER party HER day, why would anyone want to invite people you don't like to a party? So what if the other find out, maybe those girls will learn an important lesson, such as being mean doesn't get you anything. Your daughter is right, let her have her party her way.

Trekincat

It's bad enough she has to put up with "mean girls" at school, the kid sure should not have to put up with them at her own Birthday Party! (I wish there was a way to get rid of mean girls here)

LouLou

My limit was 9. Just say that your limit is 6...that is all you can handle at a time. Not all need to come. I bought my son to a party that no one wanted to go to...they had good reason....that the parents did know. Kids will not enjoy it is they are accepted as much. I would not push it after what I found out about this one person my sons encountered.

Shasha

You should respect your daughter's wishes and only invite the girls that she wants to be at the party. There's no rule that says that she has to invite everyone or else no one. If you don't want the other girls to find out, have your daughter mail the invites (or hand deliver the invites to their home) rather than pass them out in class.

BabyCachet

Thanks.

foodtable

You're right... make sense! Thanks for answering :)

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