How to flirt with a guy? (I am 14 yr. girl). I am working on losing weight and I want to know how to flirt with a guy?

You can flirt even before you lose the weight. If a guy likes you, he's not going to care about how much you weigh. I'm sure you have a pretty face too, that should help! Here's an article on flirting: http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-With-a-Boy-when-You-Are-13-or-14 Don't feel like you are being left out. I'm fifteen and have never had a boyfriend, much less even flirted with a boy before. Oh, and you are very kind. A lot of kids your age on here will start screaming at you if you are just trying to give them the advice they asked for! Lol.

At 14, you should be adjusting to high school and paying attention to your studies. Boys will be there.

Be yourself or the flirting may not work. See http://Youtube.com about relationships/dating. It is not the looks or weight. It is how you make them feel/happy.

If it's the right and perfect guy, he won't care how you look. :) When you want to flirt: Smile at him Laugh at all his jokes Make eye contact Compliment him Touch him on the arm or knee

When you are the right age to flirt, the knowledge will come from within yourself. It will be instinctual. The fact you have to ask proves you are not ready. Relax. You have your whole life ahead of you to have your heart broken.

I think you first have to make a successful career and then see other things.

14 year old boys are dumb, awkward, and usually dirty. So are 15 yr old boys and all but four 16 yr old boys. I was a nerdo in Jr and Sr High. I wasn't really bothered by it. A couple of years after high school, I was in a new place, and surrounded by men. Don't know how, don't know why. I was sought after. I was pursued. Flirting is way more exciting that way. Flirting can cause lots of trouble if someone misunderstands your signals. I know when ur a teen and people are telling you to wait for everything it sucks. If so many people say the say thing, that should seem like a clue. Look at it this way. if you were baking a cake, and someone came along ten minutes after you put it in, and reached into the oven to scoop up a glob of it, what would be the result? A ruined cake. The person who scoops won't be happy, neither will anyone else. Some things are just not meant to be rushed, no matter how hungry we get. Self improvement is a good thing. I wish you well. Just follow through for good reasons:)

Is it the only thing that you need at this age?

You are like my little sis' .. lol I will tell you this too ... take it slow though, give it a month! ;) hugs