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Postcards for the Pokey

  • My little brother is currently in jail, and will likely be staying there or in a similar facility for quite a while. He is only allowed to receive postcards, and softcover books mailed from Amazon or B&N. If either of these items violate the byzantine regulations (details contained within), they will not reach him. What are some creative things that are basically just pieces of paper (no paint, stickers, double layers, etc) I can send as postcards? What are some books that won’t be taken away for sex, drug, gang, etc content you’d recommend for a 23 year old male who never really read for pleasure, recently earned his GED, and likes Hunter S. Thompson? POSTCARDS: - I have a pile of touristy postcards, but since I’m sending 1-2 a day I’m quickly running out. What stores sell postcards in Chicago, Illinois? Any interesting online vendors? - The jail recommends buying a package of cardstock and cutting it down to the permitted sizes. What are some other materials I could use to keep it interesting? Cereal boxes? - I can send items to my mom, who lives in the state and can visit him; she can drop items in the on-site mail drop. These items will be accepted without a stamp provided that the address is still written on it. My brother tells me that it is common for people to drop photographs with addresses written on the back as “postcards.” What are some other ideas like this? What should I take photos of? - What are some ways I can make sending postcards every single day easier on myself? For example, I bought a little plastic pocket-folder perfectly sized to hold postcards & a booklet of stamps, so I can keep some extras in my messenger bag at all times for quick written-on-the-bus notes. I found out that the post office sometimes sells little booklets of postage-paid postcards. I love the little “sketchbooks” of postcard-sized watercolor/etc paper you can buy at art supply stores. - What are some interesting things I can send instead of just “Hi how are you this is what I did today love you”? Hand-drawn comics? Little watercolor paintings? Quotes from famous figures? Connect the dots? Riddles? Jokes? BOOKS - The only book he’s specifically requested so far is “The Rum Diaries” by HST, which was sent back to my mom for sexual content. - He specifically said "no self help books." - The only book I remember him loving in high school was “The Color Purple.” He recently read through all the Harry Potter novels in jail. - I have no shame about sending him young adult novels; his reading level probably isn’t all that much higher, and heck, I still read them sometimes. No shame. - He was never a voracious reader, so he likely missed a lot of classics. What would be interesting/funny/fast-paced and not too dry, boring, dense or difficult? - Has anyone ever worked in a prison who has an idea how they determine censorship? We’re guessing that Rum Diaries was either rejected on the title or maybe someone had seen the movie; if I sent, say, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues by Tom Robbins (an example of the kind of book I think he’d enjoy but probably can’t send), how would they determine that it is inappropriate? - I think he would enjoy comic books and graphic novels. - If there are puzzle/activity books, like Sudoku, that are way cooler and less lame than Sudoku, that would be rad to know about as well. When I was a teenager in a residential treatment center, my little brother bought me Kid Koala’s first comic book, Nufonia Must Fall, that I’d been looking forward to for months with his own money and sent it to me. It was one of the few bright moments in one of the most difficult times of my life. I love him very much, and I owe him. Since I would be dying of curiosity if I read this question, the charges are drug-related. He’s made many mistakes but hasn’t hurt anyone but himself. Thank you for your help. Rules For Sending Postcards: 1.As of October 4, 2010, postcards will be the only acceptable form of incoming mail for inmates in custody at all Ventura County Sheriff 's Office jail facilities. Postcards must be no smaller than 4 x 6 inches and no larger than 6 x 11 inches (US Post Office standards). 2.Incoming postcards must be delivered via US Postal Service, a commercially licensed carrier (i.e., FedEx, UPS, etc.) or collected from a jail public lobby drop box to be accepted. Incoming postcards must be properly addressed with the inmate’s name and booking number, and mailed to: PO Box 6929, Ventura, CA 93006. All incoming correspondence, including postcards, must have a legible, return address to be processed within the jail facilities. Booking numbers may be obtained by clicking here, or calling 805 654 3335. 3.Any of the following will cause incoming mail to be returned to the sender or placed directly into an inmate’s property: •Postcards that have been altered from their original form, including added layering, backing, or wrappings. •Postcards marked with paint, crayon, glitter, labels, cloth, string, watermarks, stains or stickers (excluding US postage stamps). •Postcards with any perceived bio-hazard (i.e. lipstick, gloss, scents, etc.) •Postcards depicting nudity, obscenities, suggestive images, or other offensive materials. •Postcards depicting weapons, gang references, criminal activity, codes, or markings. •Postcards depicting or containing writings, images or references that may incite violence, riot, racism, or threaten the security of any Ventura County jail facility. •Not mentioned in the official rules: they cut the stamps off the corners of the postcards before giving them to the inmate. Rules for Sending Books Inmates may only receive softbound books sent directly from the publisher, Amazon.com, or Barnes and Noble.com. There is a limit of three (3) books that may be sent at one time. Bibles are included in this restriction. If an inmate would like a religious book (Bible, Koran, etc.), a request may be submitted to the Chaplain and one will be provided to the inmate. No hard, leather, spiral bound or plastic covered books will be accepted. Books sent from a publisher must have a proof of purchase. Books sent to an inmate must include a letter or receipt on the organization’s letterhead stating the book was donated. If any portion of the book order is unacceptable, the entire order will be returned to sender.

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    They're not really allowed to censor the content of the books! Get in touch with local prisoner's rights groups, or maybe the ACLU.

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I volunteer with a group that sends books to prisons. While mareli is totally right that censorship is not allowed in theory, the practice is very, very different. One of the things I've noticed is that while people do request fictional books, more requests come in for non-fiction, and especially types of non-fiction that allow you to spend a lot more time thinking, learning, etc. per book. Some suggestions: -General reference, including thesauri, dictionaries, vocabulary builders, atlases, almanacs, etc. Being inside means no Google. -Foreign language. Would he be interested in learning Spanish or some other language? (Sign language is sometimes not allowed, so that one's tricky.) -Interesting books about the world: Bill Bryson, Oliver Sacks, Jon Ronson, that sort of thing. Accessible books that also let you learn something. Secret Life of Henrietta Lacks, Brief History of Time, 1491. Anything pop-sci or pop-hist. That sort of thing. -If he was ever a DnD player, the DnD manuals are quite a popular request. Manga and comic books and graphic novels are, too. -Art books: Books with good reproductions of great art, or how-to books about learning how to draw. Note that books with reproductions of nudes do sometimes get censored, though. -Chess, if he'd be at all interested in playing. We get a lot of requests for chess books. Also, do you know how many books he's allowed to have at one time? Many prisons place restrictions on this.

pie ninja

I have never been in prison but was bedridden at one time and largely housebound for a really long time. Take photos when you are out and about. Write something on the back about what you were doing, why you thought it was interesting, etc. I used to be just starved for a taste of life beyond the walls of my apartment. Even small things that you take for granted can be a big deal for someone severely sensorily deprived in that manner -- and also mentally starved. Some recent discussion elsewhere remarked on the overwhelming boredom of prison and that people sleep the day away for lack of anything better to do. I also might take photographs of doorknobs and door handles and write about where it was -- a restaurant, a friend's house, etc. I saw a piece on probably "Sixty Minutes" many years ago about someone in prison. The one detail that stuck with me was a comment about there being no door knobs in prison because everything is gated. This was something remarked on in a very powerful way. I remember nothing else about the piece, just that when this guy left prison, he had not touched a doorknob in many years and that it was a big deal to him to return to the world of doorknobs.

Michele in California

One more thought I just had about what you can write him on a daily basis. When I was embarking on cancer treatment, one of the technicians at the hospital told me: "every day you will be presented with a treasure. You don't even have to look for it. Just know it will be there." It was a great method of getting thorugh a long, rough time, and I've tried to adopt that as a general way of looking at the world ever since. So what if one of your daily postcards is a line or two about that day's "treasure" you stumble upon? Might be a neat way to think of something unusual/funny/sweet/sublime to share with him, plus it might help him keep positive and look for the small treasures in his life during this hard time, too.

scody

Might seem a little childish to him if he's all about Hunter S Thompson right now, but http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/188896314X/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/ is engrossing, funny and sweet.

rhythm and booze

If he enjoyed the Harry Potter books, I'd suggest also the His Dark Materials series by Phillip Pullman. And possibly The Hunger Games, if they don't deem it too violent. They're classified as young adult though, so maybe they'll pass. If he liked The Color Purple, he also might like The Help. Maybe some Mark Twain, Maya Angelou, Shirley Jackson. And if he likes Hunter S. Thompson then some authors I'd suggest are Jack Kerouac (On the Road), Ken Kesey (One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest), Aldous Huxley (Brave New World), Kurt Vonnegut (Slaughterhouse Five), perhaps even some Steinbeck too. All of these authors and books are a little bit more "classic" leaning and are taught in high school, so are not as likely to be censored. Definitely all worth reading.

erstwhile

Have a look at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0786838655/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/ first in a series. You know your brother best, of course, but I think this book and its sequels share a lot of the sensibilities with the "Harry Potter" series. Bonus: These books are found in middle school libraries, and seem unlikely to be deemed inappropriate. Good on you for doing this for your brother.

MonkeyToes

http://us.moo.com/products/postcards.html Moo postcards! Order 20 postcards, upload 20 photos, and each postcard will be different. Assuming you hae a digital camera, this makes sending him snaps from family events or whatever really really easy. Also: word search postcards (http://www.zazzle.co.uk/word_search_activity_card_postcards-239553444012717615, http://www.zazzle.co.uk/word_search_activity_card_postcard-239986410275444982, http://www.zazzle.co.uk/word_search_puzzlesfind_postcard-239346434933251719 make your own!) You can also send word search, sodoku and http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0373892063/metafilter-20/ref=nosim/ from Amazon. If any of these are a hit, there is an almost unlimited supply of each type. Also, at this point I'd be learning to play http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correspondence_chess.

DarlingBri

I'd probably go for classics but ones that are easy to read. John Steinbeck springs to mind - meaningful, engrossing stories that would probably get past the censors. The Grapes of Wrath or Of Mice and Men would be good. Or you could try George Orwell. I'm thinking that 1984 would be too subversive maybe (though certainly worth a try), but Coming Up for Air should get through. Also, you sound like a wonderful sister, but don't be too hard on yourself. I'm sure your brother wouldn't mind postcards a couple of times a week, because every day is a hell of a lot and you might not be able to sustain it. If you can't, that's ok. You'll still be an amazing sister.

hazyjane

I work sometimes in a prison school with guys your brother's age. Professional sports-related books like biographies are good. Get him lots of magazine subscriptions. They are cheap and come regularly in the mail. He'll like that. Don't think artsy, quirky or obscure. Things that he and the guys around him could enjoy are best, in my opinion.

vincele

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