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How do I make actors comfortable during sex scenes?

  • How do I make actors comfortable during sex scenes? I'm about to start directing an adult TV series that features nudity and simulated sex. I've never dealt with this as an actor or a director before. I know the basic ideas of closing the set and having robes handy, but I really want to make sure I cover all the bases and be as obliging and high-class as possible. Most of the nude scenes involve series regulars and I don't want to scare any of the performers away. Does anyone have any experiences from the set? Any do's or don'ts? Lessons from pornography will of course be welcomed, but let me reiterate that this is NOT porn. I'm not filming actual sex acts.

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    Fortunately, your actors probably have dealt with this before. Talk to them. :) Your job is to make it look real (or how we think reality ought to be). This may require the actors to be able to portray intimate and loving familiarity with each other in one scene, furtive guilt in another scene, coercing and being coerced in another scene. As you well know, in every scene they are in they have to simultaneously (a) be totally aware of the camera and the set and the director etc; (b) totally ignore the camera and the people behind it. From that point of view, why would a sex scene be any different? Whatever you need to do to make that work, that's what you do. Unfortunately, behind-the-scenes nude pictures sell. There's a whole parasitic industry devoted to that sort of crap. As I understand it "closing the set" and so on is primarily for the actors' "meta-comfort", ie for their comfort as their celebrity/media selves, and secondarily for their comfort as the actors performing the scene. As the characters they are just doing acts that they in-character intend to do. In summary, it's going to be something you'll need to work out with the actors, with their agents, with the camera operators, with the rest of the crew, and with studio management who (I've been told) have a bad habit of assuming that clearing the set of unnecessary personnel does not apply to them.

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One more thing: but I really want to make sure I cover all the bases and be as obliging and high-class as possible sounds like you're on the right track already.

aeschenkarnos

Actors should be comfortable with this. You shouldn't worry too much.

thebrokenmuse

Use as small a team as possible. The smaller the audience, the more intimate the performance.

Baud

Actors are professional humans. Talk with them quietly and honestly and you'll get what you want. Everything else is commentary.

Dizzy

i remember reading an interview with some actress who had to do a sex scene and was very nervous about it. the director's solution was for everyone to work naked--him, the cast, and crew. that might be a bit much, and if you're working with erotic film actors anyway, they are probably ok with it anyway.

thinkingwoman

On a rather big set, we made fabric and tripod "rooms" right on the set that the actors could go to between takes, instead of all the way back to the dressing rooms. Also hair and make up were normally on a different floor, for nude scenes we had them work right on the set. Also see http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=merkin.

StickyCarpet

Have a couple of weeks of minimally-clothed yoga classes for yourself and the principals with a great instructor.

thinkpiece

Having filmed far too many bed scenes, I've vowed to never write another one again, I may have a solution... Choreograph it to death. The nervousness comes from them not knowing what you want and what to do. Let them know as clearly as possible and even go through the motions yourself with one of them or with someone else. You should be able to give them the shots and the movements on paper beforehand, THAT'S how much planning you should have done before the scene. If they know that you've done the work, they'll want to do their part. Leave room for improv if you can, but don't expect it. Time is always short.

CarlRossi

Keep a handle on your own nervousness. I've done near-nude scenes in theater, and a calm director makes a big difference. Take a deep breath, laugh at how weird your job is, and don't do that thing where you frantically don't know where to put your eyeballs.

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