Bachelor Party Entertainment?

San Francisco bachelor party suggestions?

  • SanFranciscoFilter: One of my very good friends is getting married soon and wants a bachelor party. The best man has been given the role of organizing this party, but lives in San Antonio and therefore doesn't know The City. It's been a long time since I've lived in the Bay Area and therefore have absolutely no idea what to suggest in terms of location or 'entertainment.' The groom loves fine wines, good restaurants (as long as they're not vegetarian/vegan) and good beer. Here's the ground rules as given by the groom: "I'd like to drink, but I don't want to be hung-over (or worse) the next day. In a similar manner, I should probably get some sleep, so I'd probably want to be done by 2-3AM at the latest. Nudity is ok, so long as (a) it's none of us doing the nudity and (b) I don't have to do anything I wouldn't do if Xxxxxx [the bride] were in the room." Any suggestions for locations and/or 'entertainment' would be appreciated! Anywhere from Marin to Sunnyvale is fair game, but nothing in the East Bay other than Berkeley. Including the groom, there will be 10 of us. Money really isn't an object, but keeping the cost to ~$100 each would be nice.

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    Starscream, since you have never attended or planned one before, here are the things you must know about having a bachelor party: 1. Watch the http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0086927/. The bachelor party should not be like that. Unless you know where to score some tranny hookers, although that doesn't really sound like your guys' kind of scene. 2. No matter what you say or do, someone will be hung over. The groom may say he doesn't want to get blotto, but once he's having a good time and you get about 3 pitchers of Spaten Franziskaner in him, he's not going to care about the impending morning doom. (God knows I had no intent to get smashed, but after I'd been to 20 bars the night before, the wedding rehearsal went pretty easy) 3. You are going to drink a lot, therefore you are going to spend a lot. 4. While strip clubs might be fun, they are going to eat into your cash like crazy. On average, drinks at strip clubs cost twice as much as regular booze joints. That was in the Quarter in NOLA, I'd hate to know what the ones in the Bay Area cost. (maybe a rubber doll isn't such a bad idea after all) 5. It's a lot easier on bartenders if people start buying rounds rather than 6 individual guys trying to order one drink at a time, and open/shut a tab. 6. Do NOT do hard-liquor (vodka, whiskey, tequila, etc) shots. Shots are a BAD IDEA. Expensive wastes of money that are not condusive to fun conversation. That and they end your night hella fast. Remember, you're out for a good time, not for a quick drunk. 7. It will be ka-blamo aaaaaawesome. You will have a good time, but it will be even better for the groom because he gets to be with his best buddies for one last ridiculous outing, and he will (probably) remember (most of) it (fondly) for a very, very long time.

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Hot air balloon ride. Most of them finish off with a champagne breakfast afterwards. If you must have nudity, dangle a blow-up doll from a rope.

bondcliff

You may want to up your dollar amount slightly higher - remember you are in the Bay Area and that going out for dinner and a few drinks alone is going to run you close to $100. If you are going to blow it out (and I http://ask.metafilter.com/mefi/16611), prepare everyone to bring a couple extra bucks. That being said, look online at some of the different local boards (or even use Google Earth and start turning on some of the bar options) to see if you can find clusters restaurants and bars within walking distance of each other in areas that fit your demographic profile. Everyone meets up at one location and there isn't the necessity to take cabs, drive elsewhere, etc.

kuperman

Thanks, kuperman, for the Google Earth suggestion! Since it's a slow day at work today I think I'll check that out now. I've never attended or organized a bachelor party before, so I guess I kinda just pulled the $100 figure outta thin air. ;)

starscream

I saw a party of bachelors and a party of bachelorettes, presumably from the same wedding, that had rented out two of the San Francisco cable cars for the night. They put lights and decorations up, rolled in the coolers, turned on the music, and cruised around San Francisco all night, waving to passers-by whilst tipping their brews. That looked like a lot of fun. I have no idea how much it would cost, but you might call SFMuni to inquire.

symphonik

North Beach is the default destination for the traditional bachelor parties in San Francisco. Tons of restaurants, bars and naked women. A one stop shop. My latest favorite restaurant in North Beach is a place called El Raigon. It's an Argentinean steak house and it is really freakin good. It's a pretty "manly" room - could be a great place to start. Have a drink at any number of the places along Grant as you walk towards Broadway and Columbus and then take your pick of the naked lady emporiums. For the less traditional - http://www.gokartracer.com/ near the airport. A day of golf followed by dinner. An afternoon at the shooting range. A hike. A day at Great America going on rides. If the groom likes the naked ladies - by all means indulge him but I've seen a trend in my husband's friends of really not being comfortable with that part of the pre-wedding ritual and really having a bad time when that is forced. On preview - the rolling cable cars aren't actually cable cars - they are busses made to look like cable cars. They are made specifically for just the kinds of events symphonik mentions and are in no way connected to Muni.

Wolfie

Just FYI, the vast majority of strip clubs in SF don't serve alcohol, because the law is that they're not allowed to do so and have full nudity at the same time.

trevyn

Definitely head for North Beach - lots of GREAT restaurants and bars and an ongoing party-type scene. I know lots of favorite restaurants there (especially Italian), so let me know if you want specific recommendations. There's also strip clubs on Broadway if your friend wants that kind of action. AFAIK, the topless-only clubs do serve alcohol. For restaurant reviews, I'd suggest you go to the http://sfgate.com/food/website, and just browse.

jasper411

>>...rented out two of the San Francisco cable cars for the night. They put lights and decorations up, rolled in the coolers, turned on the music, and cruised around San Francisco all night, waving to passers-by whilst tipping their brews. I'm fairly certain the company that rents out motorized cable cars, http://www.cablecarcharters.com/, no longer allows alcoholic beverages on board. Something about drunk people falling out and lawsuits...

birdsong

http://www.pubclub.com/sanfrancisco/pubclub.htm in San Francisco. I see these things cruise by all the time, and while they inspire eye-rolling among everyone else, especially in hipper-than-thou neighborhoods like the Mission (preemptive: don't hate; I lived there and loved it for six years, and moved only under duress), I'll admit they're probably pretty fun. North Beach is a good idea for traditional bachelor party-style festivities. Make sure you don't go to the Stinking Rose, as so many people (including a friend of mine) do for bachelor and -ette bashes. Tourist trap with crappy food. Vesuvios is fun, as is Savoy Tivoli (great outdoor patio). Tosca is an SF institution where you may run into Willie Brown or Sean Penn or other local luminaries. http://www.sftravel.com/food/nbbars.html All this said, if it were my bachelor party, I'd hang out in the Mission. http://www.sftravel.com/bmissn.html A http://sanfrancisco.citysearch.com/best/results/8453/ http://wikitravel.org/en/San_Francisco/Mission_District#Drink but still missing a few gems, like the Lone Palm, the Casanova Lounge, the Latin American Club. http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/eguide/music/barguide/byneighborhood.DTL Have fun!

donpedro

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