Babies and Cars
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We already have a baby, and now we're having another. Two-part question: we need advice on upgrading to a "family vehicle" (what kind of car to buy that suits our needs); and we need to know how to safely transport two babies at once (i.e. two carseats in the backseat logistics). More inside. We have a 13-month-old son and another baby on the way. We've been making do with my '97 two-door Toyota Tercel even though it's a hassle to haul the baby in and out of the (tiny, hard-to-access) backseat, but the idea of wrestling two babies and two carseats is making me think it's time to start saving money to upgrade to a "family" car. So the first part of the question is: I've never bought a car before. What kind of car would be family-friendly (i.e. roomier), enviro-friendly (probably not an SUV), gets good gas mileage (important, since we make regular long trips), reliable/doesn't cost a mint to repair, and inexpensive/easy to find used? We don't really have the money to buy something brand-new, so does it make more sense to get something that just fits the two babies for now and upgrade again in a couple years, or buy something almost-new that'll be big enough for the (very probable) kids that might come along after these two and not get another for the next five years or so? I'm not too keen on minivans but something that is safe and not too boxy would be okay; I'm not comfortable driving really big or wide cars. I'm thinking a station wagon might be the best option. Or maybe there are cars that are roomier that aren't so-called "family" cars. I'm looking for make/model suggestions here, personal experiences and recommendations. And the second part: what is the safest way to put two carseats in one backseat? The safest place is in the middle, so does that mean the littler one sits there and the older baby has to sit on one of the sides - and if so, which side would be safer, behind the driver or the passenger? Is it safe to put those two carseats right up next to each other (one in the middle, one on the side), especially if one will be facing forward and the other backward? Or better to separate them so they aren't touching and put one on each side of the backseat? Is there such a thing as a two-baby carseat that would go in the middle of the backseat?
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Answer:
I have been quite satisfied with the stripped down Subaru Legacy L . I am on my second one, (accident!) and really its just a super car. You can find them used, (30k) for maybe 12,500.
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We have a 2000 VW golf, and prior to looking into getting a mortgage for an Odyssey...Oops, I mean a loan, we looked at the Element. Had I been starting from scratch, with no cars, the Element would have been our choice. We planned on, and so far, have, two little girls. The Element has more room than the Golf, but we bought the Golf and wanted to keep it... So, we ended up with a Caravan in addition to the Golf. I felt that if you can't afford the Odyssey (or the Sienna, although we did not like the Sienna as much) it really didn't matter. I have a friend who worked in Quality Control for Lear, who makes seats etc. for most major car companies, and her opinion was that the domestics were really all the same, i.e. not that great. Get a ride you can afford, the Element is pretty inexpensive and very rugged (car sickeness? You can hose out the back!) and invest in really good quality car seats (we favour the http://www.britaxusa.com/ car seats) Whew...there's my 30 or 40 cents!
Richat
Left this out 96 was the first year for a new body style, both engineering and sheet metal. However power train modules carried over from 95 and transmission problems were mostly eliminated by 93 if people used the correct fluid.
Mitheral
This might sound stupid, but what about an old four door Nova or Cadillac that is in good shape? It will cost $3k, and has those wide rear seats. When it needs a big repair in three years, you go out and buy another one, and it's only cost you $80, plus all the gasoline of course. I don't think anyone that has posted really understands the "inexpensive" concept. This isn't a terrible idea, and I'd have offered a similar idea myself, but for one thing: Melinika's profile shows her in Ontario, and that's not an ideal nurturing ground for older cars. It's hard to find one that isn't a rustbucket, and a rustbucket is not a safe car in which to transport children. Also, the cost of maintaining an older car is virtually nothing if you're handy with a wrench, but if you aren't, you could very well be screwed. That said, we were about to continue on our own vintage-car adventure and get an old sedan or wagon, but decided that we travel enough by car that a new, reliable vehicle was worth our money. And we drove old rattletraps while we saved up the money for one. But we're in California where old cars in fabulous condition are the rule.
padraigin
I had the same criteria (one now planning for another soon) when I went looking to replace my Dakota 4x4 that got stolen this summer. I bought a 96 Caravan for C$2000 with 175Kms. A minivan is by far the interior space leader. Regardless of your domestic/import bias in the used market the Caravan is a good bet. Chrysler owns 40-50% of the minivan market with good reason. And that huge market share means parts are readily available. The stowable seats are a gimmick in my opinion. Like SpecialK said you need the seat all the time anyways. And when you don't your hauling around all that extra weight. Email me if you consider a Caravan. I can send you recommendations on which to be looking for and a great multipage write up of the improvements and reasearch that went into the 96 minivans.
Mitheral
This might sound stupid, but what about an old four door Nova or Cadillac that is in good shape? It will cost $3k, and has those wide rear seats. When it needs a big repair in three years, you go out and buy another one, and it's only cost you $80, plus all the gasoline of course. I don't think anyone that has posted really understands the "inexpensive" concept. Use the extra money to put in a dvd player! And get some phat rims. I'm only half-joking. [/mourning his old 79 Nova]
mecran01
We just bought a Honda CRV and we love it. We probably paid more for it than you want to spend, but one thing to consider about the current crop of Hondas is that they have no scheduled maintenance for something like the first 100,000 miles. Change the oil, put gas in it and make sure the tires are in good shape, and you are good to go. One nice thing is that is has much more room inside than you would expect, and the mileage is as good as the Volvo V-70 station wagon that I traded in on it.
Irontom
Safety-wise, I drove a '97 VW Jetta (bought used at 13k, and we paid more than we should have - sold it 18 months ago for ~$8k) and an '85 Volvo sedan, and never felt safer - I have this crazy idea that European cars are safer than any other. The Jetta was the car my baby would have been driven around in had we stayed in the US, so we had it set up with the baby capsule (Graco travel system) and everything and there was tons of room to spare. After those, I'd go for anything Honda for economy and ease-of-maintenance, although as soon as you get anything with a ton of electrics -- like all American cars -- it gets more time-consuming and hence more costly to repair. Thirdly I'd choose Toyota for price, decent but not great economy and ease of maintenance. I don't remember any North American car models any more, but a station wagon seems like a good bet, all right. My warning as far as Subarus goes is that the two we owned or drove in the US, both autos, both blew the transmissions and the one we actually owned cost a heck of a lot to fix. But maybe that was just the voodoo curse. (As far as the transporting two babies, I can't offer anything useful there but I will be bookmarking this page. :)
tracicle
I second the Volvo station wagon. You can drive a Volvo off a 35-foot cliff and walk away unscratched.
gokart4xmas
I hesitate to suggest an american minivan but, here goes nothing. The 2000 Dodge Grand Caravan Sport/AWD can be had for about 9-13k. It has good consumer reviews, features dual sliding doors, all-wheel-drive plus it's pretty plush with a lot of bells and whistles for that kind of money. A friend has one, it's got back of the seat LCD/DVD's that were pretty trick back then. If I only had two kids, this would probably be what I hauled them with. As a longtime GM consumer, I've finally crossed the threshold where I can't reccommend any of them. If you do wish an import, look closely at the Toyota Sienna XLE 1999-2001. They are very similar to the Caravan and probably a bit more reliable and thoughfully built. The newest Siennas are AWD so, perhaps in a few years? Regardless, I'm a strong advocate of 2-4 year old used vehicles. Let someone else eat that new car price... Anyway, if a minivan is straight out for the family (I would understand if it was) please look at a gently used Volvo station wagon. A 15 year old Volvo is far safer and more reliable than a 2004 anything. I doubt much else will give you the backseat expanse that you're going to need. Back in the day, when we were running two carseats, we had a couple of station wagons. Now, for all eight (one carseat) of us, we can only fit into a full-sized van. When they get spouses and their own kids (not long now) I'll probably get a damn bus....
Dean_Paxton
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